And a lot of time, instead of walking away, we just sit there and we try to figure it out. And I know I've been there a few times myself. That's why I say it the way that I say it. So nine times out of ten, if I meet somebody that I'm interested in and I'm sitting down, conversing with them, just trying to get to know them and they feel as though the conversation is going nowhere and vice versa
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:36
But again, it could be that the person just files away the red flags until something major happens. But we should definitely all be vigilant and paying attention to signs, not to the point where we're investigating and judging people and not enjoying the moment, but definitely your spirit will let you know, hey, something is wrong, because it'll be very clear, and you don't ever want to go against your spirit. That's your detecting system there. But this is definitely a great topic
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:25
But if they ask questions that's how you know that they're not really interested. But it's like let me see what I can get out of this person or that person. It's a sad way to live, but again, that's the name of the game these days
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Hi, Al. I'm new to the site. Nice to meet you. I agree with a lot of the stuff that you said about in regards to dating and how things are different. And I think with me overall, I think it's all about, like you said, being respectful. I want to add communication, being consistent. Like you said, vacation, we can't waste people's time
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:47
But these are, again, more so the people that they're seen as the ones that are supportive, the ones who showed you can cry, and the ones who are reliable. Sadly, what happens is a lot of the people out there don't really find them all that they're not physically attracted to them, but then they know they can go to them because they know that they like them