Call often so that I can be annoyed with you and give you sass and attitude and take it out on you when I'm in a bad mood. But if you don't call, you hear the conversations. And so you are taught to put your family first. Then when you get married, it's your husband or your partner, your wife. Then when you have kids, it's the kids. And you just keep getting slid back farther, farther, farther, farther, farther