Do you know what you want ?
We get in a relationship, he's nice, and we're saying to ourselves, um, he don't do this, but he does this. And maybe that I will accept that. Well, he's really nice, but he doesn't call me every day, and I think that's okay. So we're looking. We make excuses for the flaws they have instead of saying, look, I don't like this, and this may not meet my needs
And when I heard that, I just wanted to expand for me that I don't, I don't feel feelings are temporary. I think there's just a, a wave of emotional levels that we experience. And when we get to different levels and not at what we would define in this day and age of happiness, it feels as if we're not having the emotions, but not even a but
Jayne Carson
@wsjayne · 0:55
Do you know what you want? Actually, Tony Robbins goes over this. If you do not know what you want, but you know what you do not want? Write down everything you do not want, and on the other side, write the opposite, and that's what you want. I have to keep practicing that. And I. I listen to Tony Robbins every day. I've been part of his inner circle. I have gone to his seminars. But you know what?
But when you start loving yourself and doing self love and self reflection on who you are and what you demand because you are worthy, then you'll start attracting what you want and not settle. So I agree with you 100%. And that's why I promote self love, self care. You are worthy. And because we deal with life, and sometimes when we deal with life outside, you get beat up. But you have to practice that self love and talk, like, into yourself
No, you are worthy. God doesn't put a limit on us. So I just want people to understand. Yes. Agree with you 100%. Knowing what you want is knowing what you don't want. And write that down, because once you see that, you know what you're going to stand for, you see it in writing and you're going to go for it. So thank you
Jayne Carson
@wsjayne · 0:21
Thank you. It is writing down the opposite of what you don't want. But also, you know, where I'm stuck is this massive action, because it's you look at what you really want, but how do you go get it? But thank you. Massive action, I think, is where everyone gets stuck
Even if you in a relationship with somebody and no longer in there. It is so important to have a good communication, to be on one accord, to be as one. It doesn't mean that you have to be together. But the toxic behavior falls, trickles down to the children and the children become what their parents are toxic. You, you know, and sometimes you will see men that are very angry or whatever
Yes. And so in order for you to do a transformation, you do need to write down what you want and how do you execute. And that is the whole thing. It's like, you know, it's like two couples having an issue, right. And two couples having an issue. We're gonna talk about the issues and what are we going to do about it? So that's part of the writing it down. So say, for instance, I am looking
Jayne Carson
@wsjayne · 0:26
Thank you for the how I get stumped and just sit there on the sidelines. And it's been 30 years I've been doing this because I get stuck on what I want, what the ideas are, but how do I do it? Thank you. Persistence. Persevere. Being optimistic. Thank you very much
You're so welcome when we're in this world together. So you're not alone. I don't want you to ever think that you're alone. You can always find me on here, and I'll motivate you, push you a little bit. Even if you fall back and stumble. I think that that's the point of being part of God's army, is pushing someone and loving them and making them be the best person they can be. Right?
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Coach Brooklyn, thank you for listening to my post and responding to you. And you just have a continued amazing day. And thank you for being willing to follow me. You are definitely already followed by me, so I look forward to future conversation with you. Have an enjoyable day