Self love first
Did I cheat on you? Or all men cheat? Did he cheat on you? Give that. Why are we getting in relationships if we feel our mindset is all men cheat, don't get in one. Say to yourself, I'm not trying to be funny. Say to yourself, but if you're willing to you have been cheated on and you're willing to go forward and try to see what this relationship is going to be, then that's being open minded