Just take good things from them and leave the bad in them. This should be the mantra. If I will just stick to one thing that he or she hurt in me, I'm doing my loss only letting myself to stop growing. Have you ever noticed number 69 just opposite of another. It teaches you what you get, what you give. So just be good to everyone. People will automatically be your site. Just give all your good things to them. They will automatically give good in written