Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 3:58
Getting myself in check
And I'm not just talking about the romantic love, I'm talking about the love and just loving human beings because we're all on this earth and we're here. We're here. We're not going nowhere until the day that we die. So why do we put so many stipulations on things? But anyway, again, straighten it out, step back, breathe, relax, gain control and march on. Tomorrow is going to be a new day. Bye
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:25
You. Thank you for this, sis. I really appreciate it. And I'm really sorry you're telling us to go through chemo, but I'm praying for you. And thank you for reminding me that we need to breathe reset. Yes. We need to receive and then reset. I think I might do as well about that. Receiving and then resetting. All right. But thank you so much for
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 0:38
I'm gonna dust off and keep on going because I know who I am and I know what I'm capable of and I know what I bring to the table. So. Ain't going to worry about it, girl. Ain't going to worry about it. Have a good night. Bye
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:51
We move on. Now we laughing and talking and stuff, right? But it's different with her because we have that dynamic and we can pray for each other, and that's what we do. And so, yeah, we do. We have to take accountability and we have to check ourselves. You know what I mean? We have to check ourselves. And I'm appreciative when people are like, hey, what's up with you? Hold on a minute. Give me a minute
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:29
And that disappointment came because I let myself get that way and so I had to take ownership for it. And your kids. Yeah, I usually that to my mama, too. I'd be like, I'm going to call you back or call me when you better, when you're on that level. And I do people that if I have an argument relationship, I do it too. I'll be like, you know what? I'm not going to deal with this
Stay in my own Larie and not worry about other people and what they feel and think. The only person I can change is me. We can't even change our children if they don't want to be changed. It's the only person we can truly change in this world is ourselves. And when we realize that, we surrender a lot more. So I love hearing you say that. And it's so powerful, and it's so true
Tiffany Browning
@sparkles · 2:14
But thank you for mentioning that because it's a friendly reminder that we all, sometimes we start looking around at other people and we think, oh, it's so and so's fault. Or why did they do this to me? Or why is this happening to me? When really we just need to pull a Michael Jackson and just look at the man in the mirror. Because in many cases, we are responsible, if nothing else, for our own happiness
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:14
I was like, man, I'm not supposed to be eating certain things, but I ate healthy snacks, so that was my way of still having the munchies and eating healthy. And then I came in here and did some little stretch, some resistant exercises. So I feel better about that. But, yeah, our children do have time for bad days because I know that my daughter, she has anxiety
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:48
Or even maybe we lost 20 and then we gave up and gained 25 back. That is our fault. We have to take a look at ourselves and say, hey, what kind of discipline did we not have? Because anything is possible. Anything's possible. We don't need man's made stuff or any assistance in order to get to the goals that we're getting to. Because it wasn't like that in the past, long ago. Did nobody need all this extra stuff?