Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:26
Its ok to outgrow
And you would rather sit in your car. However, you walk in the house with your head down and sit in the bedroom in silence. Why do we do this? Why? Why do we do this when we can face the truth and just simply let go? Perhaps we're scared that if we start over in life that we're going to stumble. Perhaps we're scared that we'll be by ourselves and never find someone else
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:32
Hi, Kitha. Good morning. It's okay to outgrow, man. I've been thinking about different relationships that I have it and even thinking about my job. And then I saw this. And change is sometimes difficult. And I talked about this in my swell where I said that. Where I talked about I had taken the test and was borderline HFA. Well, borderline high functioning autistic. For me, change is really difficult. I don't like change
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:59
Good morning, Andrea. I can really feel the emotion in your message, and I just want to let you know that it gets easier. I want to say that I went through a point in my life when it all happened around the time that my dad first was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and my mom passed. And it's almost like a fast roller coaster. Just kept happening, kept happening, kept happening. I lost my best friend. I lost another best friend. My relationship started to fall
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Bob Thompson
@whatbobthinks · 2:06
Either the people that you're hanging around with deliberately don't want you to grow, or you're all so invested in each other's worlds you can't break loose to grow. I know myself, I had two very close friends in my, I would say middle twenty s to where we eventually had to part ways, all three of us
I saw this when I watched my husband go to the same places his friends used to hang out, like the car wash or a gas station back in high school. But a couple years passed and he made the rounds like he was looking for them. And they didn't come around anymore. I'm sure they were starting careers or new families or just didn't have the same interest. It was sad. I saw the same type of searching in his grandfather as he was getting into his 80s
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 0:39
Or when you have siblings and you're the only one left, there has to be something that is terrifying. I'm pretty sure I can't even imagine. Thanks for sharing
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 0:46
I had matured enough to where I had the willpower to do it. Not that I was immature, but I had enough strength to actually pursue. And so I did. And they didn't. Or either they went on a different road. Maybe they had the strength, but it just wasn't my direction. But thanks so much for signing. Bye
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:48
What's going on with that one? What's going on? This person's life. What's going on? That person's life. And then I grew to a point where I no longer found value in those types of conversations. Like, I don't really care what's going on in their life. I don't really care what they're doing. I don't really care where they're headed. I don't really care what they have on their
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 3:07
So I would go over her mom's house, and her mother was like, this young, cool mom. So when I left her, when we separated, it sound like a relationship. I guess it is. But when we went our separate ways, I lost the whole family. Her brother was like my brother. I dated one of them, but the other brother was like my brother. Her mom was like my mom