Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:00
Let me see a full body pic how about you let me see a package pic
I just feel like that in the dating world. And yes, I'm ranting about dating because I will cut somebody off just because they want to see a full body pig. Like, come on now, like, you'll see it. Just be patient, be patient, be patient. I might treat and treat you. Be patient. You might see more than what you asked for, but you're not going to see that right off. I don't know you
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 1:58
We kind of hit it off, and a few nights later, we were on the phone talking right after about, I'd say about 45 minutes into the conversation, do you know what she had the nerve to ask me? Do you know what she said to me? Just guess. She asked me, what kind of package you got? What kind of package are you working with? You know what I mean?
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:45
It's just so sad because it's like our bodies are just these packaged meals, foods to be looked at. And then once it's used, the person more than likely will leave and not stay, or they'll stay temporarily. So it's just so amazing to me that it's just this whole hookup culture type of thing. No one is interested in the sexiness of the mind, the lushness of the mind, something that lasts longer than what a body may look like
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 2:02
But I just know my boundaries. I know what kind of person I am. I know what kind of person I'm looking for. And I'm not looking for somebody who's just going to look at me for my body. And of course, yes, men do look, and women do look, too. I look at a man, I'm like, okay, how's his shoulders? How's his posture? And I want to know how his swag is. I want to know
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 2:03
Especially when people are looking for real. And it is hard to date today. Society is different. My brother and I were talking the other day and I was telling him about a situation with one of my guy associates or whatever. And just the fact that he doesn't do that. He doesn't. He's very respectful. I would say that we have that relationship of respect. But the fact that I'm like, we good? And then all of a sudden it's like he distant
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 3:07
Because if he's seriously interested in you, maybe he'll hang around and see how things develop. Maybe that would be a compromise. But one thing I have noticed over the past couple of years is people have no patience nowadays, man
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 1:02
Like you said, if they are worth it, they would wait to see the rest of you and your parts, to put it nicely. But, yeah. I don't know what else to say about this culture, the men and the women. I'm not sure. I'm not sure it
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:44
So if you're a big dude or if you're a short dude or whatever it is you got going on, whatever you're insecure about, just like a woman, if you are a big girl, if you are a tall woman, if you have whatever, no butt or whatever the case may be, whatever it is that you're insecure about, you don't want to deceive somebody by making them think that, oh, you look way younger on your picture
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:21
Or be like, hey, just send me a picture and be like, hey, whatever. Or at least give it a little bit. Don't just ask. I write off. You don't even know me. And I don't know. I just find it weird. But people are. They do to see people. I mean, I've gone on a few days and been like, because it didn't look like the picture
If we're their person, we don't have to worry about adjusting, conforming, changing. I, too, believe in just being what I am. I'm not a small girl, I'm a thick girl. And even when I'm at my healthiest, which is what I'm trying to attain, I'm still a voluptuous woman. And I'm okay with that. I'm okay in my skin. I have been known to video with a mask on my face