Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:48
Fat shaming its not a Fetish
You. Good evening. Swell. I wanted to talk about a topic on body weight and fat shaming. Now, over time, we've noticed that people's bodies have started to look different because they're getting these surgeries or these procedures to make their butts look bigger, their breasts look bigger, you know, but they're not really messing with the thighs or the hips, and that's why they don't look right
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 3:17
No, I'm just kidding. No, I'm just kidding. They say that because that's what the book says that it should say morbidly obese. But I'm not obese to the place of death. And you can't speak over me. You don't speak over me. God speaks over me. I have diabetes, type two. I diet, I exercise. I do the best I can. Now, because I have peripheral neuropathy
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:13
But I don't make no excuses for my weight at all. I don't make any excuses for it because I've lost weight multiple times. I know I can do it, so I don't make excuses for it. I don't want nobody celebrating me as a big girl when I walk into the room. I don't want everybody celebrating me because I'm a big girl that construct her stuff or whatever. And I don't look to other big girls as inspiration
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 2:25
He did. That was what he enjoyed. But the rest of the people that I've dated, they kind of just been like, they just like me for who I am. And that's all I want. I don't want you like me because I'm big or thin. I don't want you to like me for no other reasons than my personality and how much I care for people and how considerate I am and dependable. Thanks again
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:23
Like, I see people all the time who are back and forth, back and forth. Be consistent in whatever that you do and stop taking the easy way out. These weight loss shots and weight loss surgery, I understand that some people may need the surgery, especially if they're extremely overweight. But a lot of people who go get the surgery just get it because they feel like it's easy. They're going to be thin easy
It was then that my father informed me that I could date the guy if he lost 100 pounds first, that I was too pretty for the likes of that guy, and that God hates fat people. I ended up dating the guy behind my parents back for about six months. I later married a man who would struggle with his weight like my ex did, and over the years I was sure that my family was going to start their fat shaming crap. But they haven't
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 0:54
Working together and working towards health, working towards being healthy and not towards the image of man. Because men, they do judge. They judge this world. It's a very judgmental world. And we have to be happy with who we are in it. And I'm not saying to just be unhealthy and happy, but try the best that you can and use the techniques that you have to create the best life that you can while you're still here