It was many of things that he left undone. But I don't fault him because as his boss, I'm fully responsible for that because what my staff does is what am I trying to say? It's a reflection of me. So even in relationships too, sometimes when I'm dating, I expect people to be truthful. I expect them to treat me kind. I expect them to give my space. I expect them to have some kind of heart

#askswell

@HeyItsErica
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 4:50
But it doesn't hurt the heart and it doesn't hurt our mind because we gave that as a gift. Now, on the other side of that, I'm the type of person where when it comes to communicating with someone, if I'm talking to you, I need to know that you hear me. In other words, recently I was saying something in the car and the other person it was my husband and another person in the car. And no one said anything
@EricG
Eric Owens
@EricG · 2:46

@chitchatwithkk

So in their defense, if I didn't have it then and they don't have it now, then maybe it's just part of that growing up thing that we all do, I guess. But yeah, I try not to do that because you expect people to have the same work ethic you do the same attitude, the same drive, passion, motivation. It just doesn't always happen that way. And I've experienced that on different levels. Professionally, same thing
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@chitchatwithkk
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:39

@BunBunsBookPick

I learned a long time ago when I was doing life coaching training, that you can't expect because it does lead to those unnecessary emotions. So when I'm here and people don't do exactly what I think they should do, I have to remind myself that they are not me. So sometimes people, when they're going through stuff, maybe they want to sit alone
@chitchatwithkk
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:12
He had one bad situation, and it ruined everything, and he gave up on everything and walked out. And I had talked to him several times about not doing that, but people do it. I did expect of him to be a great worker because I had him under my wing and I was training him to be someone greater, to be able to lead
0:00
0:00