Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:23
Hear me roar : all voices matter
It's just an ideal or a side that someone's feeling. Remember that. Remember when you're wasting your energy and your time because you're argumentative or you're getting your feathers all roughered up, as old people would say. Remember you could have been still sitting looking pretty, if only you acknowledge that they have right? And they have thoughts, too. The world isn't all about you. The world is not all about you. We are all in it
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 2:22
But, you know, I've been on soil for about four months now, and I spend about 90% of my time just listening to what other people say about certain topics. Now, I might chime in here and there, but the fact of the matter is, for most of us, life is busy. And I've come to realize I really can't comment. I just don't have the time and energy to comment on every invite someone sends me or a topic that grabs my attention
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 2:10
And it's pretty sad sometimes that people don't see that they do that, but then they have a right to feel that way, just how the other person has a right to feel that way. I just think society can be a little bit judgmental in those fields and we shouldn't be. But yeah, I was just ranting. Like I said, yesterday was kind of like a blah day for me
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 2:05
Our time is precious, and it comes to a point where we can't continue to invest our time and physical and emotional energy into someone who is not who they say they are, someone who does not do what they say they're going to do, or someone who is not caring for you at the same level that you care for them
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:19
How can I ever grow? I'm going to be stuck in the same place because I'm never learning. I'm never growing. And so that's why, for me, I like hearing different opinions. And even when I talk to mo and, you know, I love hearing the male do you know? And there's some other men on here, I love hearing them to reply to different swells because I listen, because that male perspective is different from the female perspective