We're always going to be connected. So I want to know how you all feel about that. If there's some men out there who have had toxic relationships with their mother, they grew up being abused or their mother was not in their life, I want to know how does that make you feel in adulthood? And I want you to think deeply about it. Has it affected your relationships? There's a guy that I knew and I'm very close to, still very close to
Jordan Tepper
@JordanTepper · 2:20
And they did the best that they can do. But yeah, there's a lot of trauma that they instilled in us and instilled in me. They try to be controlling. They try to be a little bit manipulative. They just don't know it
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:20
Ahead. Thank you for sharing. I know sometimes that it can be hard, especially for men, to express themselves and to talk about past trauma. So it doesn't matter it's for a few seconds, a few minutes, a few hours, as long as you are talking about it, you are progressing
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
LaToya Smith
@LadyTee · 4:50
It always has to be that next one. He's married and he hid that from me. So therefore we were still doing what we do and then come to find out he's married. So he's not meant to be in family relationships. He is going through counseling now. So I'm really hoping that that helps with what he has going on, the issues he has with his mom, and hoping that they can reconcile that
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 2:49
But I've also been with interacting with people who I really deeply care for. And when it comes to that commitment and being focused, it appears that because of what they've seen and what they felt growing up, that kind of blocks them a little bit. But I've seen children, even in my job industry that I work in, I've seen children who have mothers that they didn't like. They hate it. You can't talk about it, but they can