Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:30
Do men want a pat on the back or honesty? Chime in !
And I'm just gonna ask you men, when you are liking a woman and you really care for her, but you haven't really linked or locked it in, right. But you know she's gonna always be there for you and you're going through something. Do you, are you calling her just so she can pat you on the back and tell you everything's gonna be okay? You're a great person. I value you. You're important to me
Robert Jenkins
@Guruball1 · 4:30
And you're standing on your square and you ask a person a question about something that you might have done or what you're going through. You want the truth. At least that's what I do. I want the truth. I want you to tell me. Because I can't heal. I can't become a better man if I don't understand where my faults lie. Where are my faults? Where are my flaws?
Don't. Don't act as though the disagreement is the end of the relationship. You know, just the check in and just being a full participant in the relationship can go a long way. And I know I'm not dealing with the whole guy thing. You know, sometimes we guys are way more sensitive about these things than stereotypes will let on that society thinks we should be
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 2:45
We need to examine ourselves and allow other people to examine us. And that is the only way that we're going to get better, is if we listen and we take the time to do the work. To do the work. The work is important because there's no sense asking the question if you don't mean to change, not a single thing, you just ask them to hear yourself
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:33
Hey, Richard, thanks so much for responding. You know, in relationships, no matter what kind of it is, you know, I always say agree to disagree. Like, it's not wrong to not think the same way as the other person. It's not wrong to think the same way, you know, but we can't all be the same on the same path and beat every single time of the day or every moment. We only progress whenever we seek our individual selves