They're just about it, man. You going to steal a car, they're going to steal a car with you, too. Whereas a soul mate may be like, oh, honey, let's not steal that car, let's go get us a job. What goals we got. We're going to get our money together. That way we have more than enough money, just not only to get the car, but we can buy a house, too
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:02
I'm going to get off here because I don't want to start crying, but I hope one day before I pass away I'll be able to meet my soul mate. And I don't necessarily think a soulmate has to be a romantic partner. I think it could be a friendship and maybe one day I'll meet my soul mate. Yeah, it
Lolita Eaddy
@Woodiemountain · 1:52
You. Yes, I know exactly what you mean. As far as twin flames and soul mates, I mean, I read up on it, too. And a twin flame to me is just like exactly what you said. Someone that you hang out with and you have fun with and you all do things together. Have fun together. I had a girlfriend like that, but she always wanted to go out and drink and party all the time
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 3:44
And so when I speak my emotion in, I'm either going to be one way, I'm going to be like, cut off, or I'm going to be out of control. So in other words, if I'm crying about something, get ready to hear the hyperventilating, because I can't control it. I have no control over my emotions. That's what I feel like. I know that's not so, but that's what I feel like
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 3:41
But there was something there that said, they're not for me. But then the soulmate, it was almost like you were smiling. It was almost like you were smiling because it made you happy and I felt it. I'm glad that you were able to experience both of those. And for me, I've had both. I've had a twin flame that was kind of in and out my life. I felt very comfortable around them. I felt like I wasn't going to be judged
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 4:59
Our behaviors, our thought patterns, the way we see things are shaped and fashioned by the society in which we live. We're attracted to people that we're not really attracted to. We're attracted to people we want to walk down the street with, people that we don't, with the type of person that we're not really into. But they just look good on our arms in the eyes of society
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:09
I'm just using that as an example. It doesn't really mean that that's the difference, but that's just the example because one of them is more detailed and more caring than the other. Both are caring, but one of them really cares deeply. But I think that a lot of times I think that we meet these people that they have defined and we don't ever prosper to go into long term relationships
Nick Salvatori
@n_salvatori · 2:00
And I know I did. I'm very confident that I did. But the problem was, and the only problem that exists is the fact that we had somebody who is a narcissistic person come in between us. And that was a huge problem. It, and until we overcome that, those things that you outline that say about the soul mates, they will be put on the back burner. But I very much appreciate that outline
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:39
So hopefully you were able to look at these and to see both people, both the soulmate and the twin flame, both love each other very deeply. And so it's not a situation into where somebody doesn't love someone because they're both relationships of love. It's just a fact of what things we go through in life. It's just two different types of love, but they're both love. And I hope that this will cause you to read a little bit more into it
Nick Salvatori
@n_salvatori · 0:45
Yeah, you're absolutely right. This is not the end all, be all. It's not the all encompassing way of looking at it, but it's a good guide. It's a good way to kind of say, hey, there's this way of loving someone, but there's also this other way. And neither one of them are necessarily wrong. And, yeah, I definitely appreciate your words. I appreciate your honesty
Natasha Nurse
@DressingRoom8 · 3:20
Like all the meals, you're the appetizer, the dinner, the dessert, the after dessert, like, all of it. And the person coming into the situation is think of as kind of the guest at the dinner table, but everything is set, the room is beautiful, and it is perfect as it is
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 3:29
Hey, I am a firm believer that you do have to love yourself before you could truly love someone else. I think a lot of times people do get it backwards and they want to love other people, but what are they doing for them? That's how people get in relationships. And then like, you know, ten years down the road or two years, whatever, they're like, man, I put my life on hold for you. I sacrificed so much for you
Natasha Nurse
@DressingRoom8 · 1:22
So their best looks different every single day, which means love looks different every single day. And that erratic behavior and that erratic chaos that is to be a human is exhausting at the end of that journey. So, yeah, you just got to vibe by yourself. Self. People come along, they don't come along. Either way, you got a mission. You on a mission? You do. You. I love it
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:08
Whether it's short or long lived, there's a lot of things that we must encounter and must learn. And even when we fall in love and find the true love, we're still going to be learning and growing. Thanks again
Natasha Nurse
@DressingRoom8 · 1:28
And I do believe that you can fall in love fast. I don't think there's a set time that it takes. It just depends on how much one shares, how much someone connects, how much one vibes with another. So you could fall in love in six days, six weeks, six months, six years. It just depends on the experiences shared between those people. But what are the lessons that are being learned? How are we growing because of the love?
