@chitchatwithkk
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:12

Tell that man how proud you are of him cause chances are the world wont !!

You. Hey, good evening. Swell. So I was on another swell and I was listening to Brandon. I think it's BT 26 is his channel, and he talks about his daily drive. So every day when he goes to work or whatever, or he's on the road, he talks about a subject and he does an episodes. And if you haven't followed him or don't listen, please go do so, because he has an interesting thing, things to say. Anyways

#blackmen #proud #ebcouragement #success

@kwa
Kwa NateKo
@kwa · 1:24
It. This is so true. And it is actually very rare to hear, believe it or not, to get, like, more than a passing compliment, like a really genuine, genuine compliment that really says something about you. And you could tell they're honest. And it's not just from people on the street
@kwa
Kwa NateKo
@kwa · 0:20
And I guess another word I want to add here is not just pride being proud, but appreciation. Yeah. Showing appreciation for, like, a genuine proud appreciation. And there's another word, but those two definitely stick out
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:48
I tell my husband now that I'm proud of him. I don't have any sons, but if I did, I tell them I was proud of them. This is really nice of you to do. I'm so glad that somebody resewelled this, because we need to know, everybody needs to know this today, because if we can spread just a little bit more joy and encouragement among black men and lift them up, seriously, what can we do, right? It
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@chitchatwithkk
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:42

@kwa

You. Hey, thanks so much for responding. You know, I truly believe that if we told our men how proud we were that they would be more successful, it's because they don't hear it. People think, oh, well, they're men. They don't need to hear it. Oh, they do. They do. And, you know, really, like you said, really, truly, meaning it makes a difference
@chitchatwithkk
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 2:49

@LadyFi

And to me, that's a good quality, to have emotion and to be able to express it while I'm the person who hides mine. Yes, I do. So that ends up causing stress sometimes, but I've learned over time that it's okay to get it out. So I used to fight crying all the time, but now I just release it. I'm like, okay, it's up and done. But, yeah, you got to tell them
@Andrea_Speaks
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:59

@chitchatwithkk

Also, even if it's just on the phone, he can call me and he know I'm going to be like, oh, babe, whatever. And men need that. Men need that. My son in law, he did ten years in prison. He did ten years in prison. He came home and within a week of him being home, he was working. He would have been working before that, but my daughter is a brat and she didn't want him working at first
@chitchatwithkk
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 3:03
No matter if they're connected with you or not, they stay with them forever because they know that you truly believe in them. And it's hard sometimes to wake up and say, hey, somebody cares for me, when sometimes people have not or the world slams the door in your face. But yes, I love the way that you are connected and the way that you help your family and the support system that you give to everyone, everyone that you encounter. Thanks again for responding
@ilovelucee
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 3:28
Like, when I hear a lot of people that I'm close to say things like, now, my parents, the way I knew they loved me because they worked they gave me food, they gave me clothes. They made sure I was clean about it. But they didn't really say the words that any child, any. Any person would want to hear. So, yeah, it's important for us to get real serious about that because we're really like plants
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