Why our relationships are fucked
I have heard guys say how awesome they are, and I can't fathom how they feel that that's accurate because their actions tend to say that they are the exact opposite of awesome. And so now at the stage I am, now I more so look at people from that angle, from that perspective. If you're not self aware, you don't even know yourself, everything you go into is going to be a lie, including romantic relationships
And it doesn't even have to just be romantic. It could be friendship, family, whatever. These things that we learn is not for us to keep to ourselves. It's for us to share. Whatever trade, whatever job you have, you're giving of yourself, anything, customer service, whatever. It's the same thing that we carry on to our romantic relationships is what we should be carrying because we're giving what we've gotten
Rocío (Ro) Christensen
@rocio · 1:14
Yeah. These two terms of selflessness and self awareness, I think they go kind of hand in hand. I think they both relate to, like, looking outside yourself, but doing so by looking inwards first. I think I think you're right. You can't, like, fix something if you don't realize that it's broken or if you are trying to avoid realizing what's broken within you to then be able to fix it and create healthier habits with people around you