Do men always want things from women?
We want a man that can have a steady income, paycheck coming in, a man that could take care of us. So relationships are going to be transactional, and that's just the way it is. A lot of the times when you get into a relationship with a man, you come in, it on ten. But then when you get comfortable and you guys start having that foundation putting in years, then you're at like a five, right?
I don't know why that is. I don't know if that's because they don't love the person as much as they claim to, or if they just didn't learn how to be a giver. If there's something that they've gone through that they need to heal. If they're narcissistic, I don't know where that comes from. But in order for I feel a relationship to truly work, there has to be give and take
So the way that you use the word us as opposed to me and you or one versus the other, and just like looking at as something that is unified, one unit togetherness, I think is perfect because it literally shows that you are a duo now. If you choose to align with someone, if you choose to put your lives together, if you choose to be unified, then it has to be in us because you're automatically going to think about the next person
Because in my life that's the only thing I can really speak toward is when I go into a relationship, I'm looking for a partner who is going to give an equal amount. When I went into dating, especially when it came to meeting my wife. Sorry. When it came to meeting my wife, the thing I was looking for was somebody that who was going to take an equal hold of the rope of life
And so that's why I don't like when we make generalizations about people, because everybody is different now. That being said, when it comes to males, one of the things that we notice as women is how, for lack of better wording, how males operate. And because we see so many males do the same thing, we tend to make those generalizations. Me, right now, I'll be 100% honest, I've kind of kept men at arm's length
You. Hi there. Thank you so much for sharing this intriguing conversation and the way it started I thought that the men are going to have a bad time but the way you ended the conversation was really a tongue twister and really appreciate the way you brought it all out. I just wanted to add a little bit more to what I believe. Maybe I may be right or wrong but I would definitely like to hear what you think about it
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:58
So a man wants to be treated as a man, just like a woman wanted to be treated like a woman, feminine. Open the doors, tell me I look pretty. Hold my hand, let people know that you're proud of me. The basic fundamentals as growing up, we wanted we didn't mind a man holding the chair off for us. We didn't mind the man taking the lead in situation
And I can't say that I don't understand where women are coming from because it does appear that men pursue, typically men pursue and it's almost like at the end of it all, you feel like you're the one that pursued them because you almost become an annoyance to them. But this is typically, obviously for men that do not want to be committed, just like you said. And it's easy to, like you say take something and then walk away from it
Shouldn't the question be why are girls always hoeing simping and pimping?
It. Well, obviously you're trying to be smart. That's a completely different question. And maybe you should ask the girls that do that. I don't even know how to answer that question because I don't do that, first off. And secondly, listen to the question. Listen to the answer and focus on the actual question. This is a completely different question that you're going to have to ask those girls that