Why are we offended by the truth?
But this person does sleep around. They do hit on people that are taken that aren't committed. Relationships try to interfere in other people's territory, but they don't want to be called a hole. Some people may call an asshole because they are being an ass. They are the definition of an asshole. They are not a good person. And even if they are deep down inside, they don't portray that in that particular moment when you're calling them an asshole
CinemaReel L.
@ReelTalker · 4:58
Instead, I could rephrase that and say, listen, you must have known what would happen to you if you slept around with a bunch of people who weren't your boyfriend within the course of a month and what that could mean. You had to have known that, okay, this is what happens. This is the real world. And when you do things like that, there are consequences. That is why they've come up with things like contraceptives for that particular reason, to protect yourself
However, this is the part I want you to understand when I say what I say. So there are people out there who you talk about gaslight, right? So somebody will do something, and they know they're not supposed to do it. They know for a fact, like you said, what the outcome is going to be. Because we're all adults. We all know when we do A plus B equals C, cause and effect, however you want to put it
I'm talking about the people that, A, you can't eliminate. They're literally A, part of your life, or B, they literally won't leave you alone. Now, this is the World Wide Web, and I can only hope that certain people don't kind of evade my little space here. But I'm going to give an example because there is literally someone who is persistent in trying to communicate clearly. This person is a little bit deranged
CinemaReel L.
@ReelTalker · 5:00
And I'm really tired of that because I feel like if I give too much support to someone, if they are a victim of their bad decisions and that's it. I'm always comforting them, saying they're there, it's not your fault, it's this, it's that. Then it's like you're not fixing those situations. And in a way, I feel like I'm validating them. I'm telling you, oh, it's all okay. It's fine
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
CinemaReel L.
@ReelTalker · 4:31
Like, you could still communicate to them all the hurt that you're going through. You could still communicate to them on their actions. Definitely don't hold back. Just remember, I always recommend when it comes to talking to those people, communicate to them in a way like you're saying your feelings, you're communicating how this is making you feel