Is argument a solution?
So when you know that some person has more ego, or a person is egoistic, if you are still going and arguing with him, expecting him or her to understand your opinion, to give value to your words, is useless. Most of the time, in spite of knowing everything we do this mistake, going and arguing with people who don't understand our opinions, who don't give value to our words
Prabha Iyer
@PSPV · 3:26
When you are friendly, when you are telling the person to calm down, to understand the situation and put a full stop to the argument, unnecessarily come to a conclusion that person is denying or ignoring. But when the society teaches him or her the same thing, it will be a repercussion of a very bad consequence. So it might hurt the person? Yes. So, as you said, it actually takes two years to start speaking for anybody on the earth to start speaking perfectly. Okay
Swati Sharma
@Swatiselflove · 1:04
Or maybe later on you can discuss the matter with the person you are in disagreement with in private. Many a times it happens that when you are sitting in a group, the person often feels like he is being offended if you completely disagree with him. So it's better if you can find a secure place you can take him out to some better place where just two of you can sit across and discuss your matter. Nice topic you have touched. All the best
Or they feel like, yes, I have done an argument, I won't. That means I am. No, it's not. Argument is never a solution, and it would never be. It's definitely waste of time. And somehow in arguments, we generally hurt someone with our words. And those are really we should not do it. So it's really amazing that you came up with this topic
Hi dear. Good evening. I've gone through the conversation you have mentioned, and that's quite natural these days. Putting something into the argumental state or turning a conversation into a heated argument where the other person is not sure what he or she is talking about or I mean, both are not confronting both are not confronting each other what they want to and that may not align with each other
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
And because of ego, most of the times we ignore things which are told by our loved ones we shouted them, we fight with them but when the same thing is shown or pointed out by the society in a group of large numbers that particular moment we start feeling guilty
Thank you so much for taking your time and replying. My swell ma'am. And you really gave a wonderful solution for this. As you told. Like whenever some we are not happy or we are not agreeing with one's decision or one's statement, it's better that we go to them personally and have conversation and explain them why we don't want to agree with it, what are its pros and what are its cons
Thank you so much for your reply. Srija and what you said was exactly right. So argument can never be a solution. And most of the time we forget that. So it's very important to understand and to work or to speak something or to do something according to the situation. Thank you so much for your reply
Thank you so much for your reply, ma'am. And you are absolutely right. Like most of the time, we try to make others do things according to our opinion. And when people go against our opinion, we start arguing with them. So the difference in the opinion is a major reason for the argument. Most of the time we try to make sure that they are following our opinion instead of that
gungun bansal
@gungunbansal_ · 1:09
You. Hi challa shigray. I hope you're doing great and thank you so much for posting it. I'm feeling glad that someone come up and talked about it because it's very important. What matters to me is that I know that I am right. I don't need to prove someone who is not going to agree with it. No, I hope you understand what I'm trying to say here. So it doesn't matter whether they agreed with it or not