I have a few little adventures planned for myself and I'm really excited for and a few times she had responded with awe, kind of implying like, oh, you're doing these things alone by yourself. And I told her it's not necessarily a bad thing that I'm doing these things alone. Personally, I enjoy it. And then it got me thinking how people tend to correlate doing things alone or doing things by yourself with loneliness. I don't think that's the case sometimes
But like at my school, my junior year I lived with nine other people and it was nightmarish at times I have to be honest with you, but the one thing that got me through it was basically what you described. So I just want to thumbs you up big, you up. Really great posts. More people need to hear this