@candylives
@Candy Livesherlife
@candylives · 4:08

Unconditional versus transactional relationships

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Hello and welcome everyone to this well. So today is going to be about one of my reflections that I have recently had. So one of the revelations that I have recently experienced is the idea of categorizing your relationships as transactional relationships or unconditional relationships. So what I figured out was a little bit about myself, I'm someone who loves big, I love unconditionally. And what that means is I've gotten into a lot of trouble, right?

#reflections #lifelessons #philosophy

@geo_rhymes
Nidhin George 🔷
@geo_rhymes · 3:28

@candylives I think we should keep the sanctity of our love safe. But at the same time, conditional / transactional love isn't bad. Its necessary.

I don't say that conditional love is a bad thing, and we are all transactional at some level or many levels. And that's just one of the things about being human. Would I want to be in a relationship or a marriage where my emotions are taken for granted? Where I don't receive appreciation or acceptance, or where there is no sexual intimacy? Absolutely not. So is my love for my partner or my wife conditional upon receiving these things? Or is it transactional? Absolutely yes
@Mehnaz_Amjad
Mehnaz Amjad
@Mehnaz_Amjad · 3:06
You. Hey, Candy. To me, I mean my thoughts on unconditional versus transactional relationships well, I don't think it's so easy to categorize relationships so easily into just two different buckets and deal with people. I just wish life was as simple. It's easy to say, but I don't really think we as human beings can actually do that because transactional is more of being
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

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@DTalks
MindOverMatter
@DTalks · 2:41
Love comes with a condition attached. So I don't see an unconditional love being a mother. That's my summation, if you can say. Because I have always heard that a mother's love is unconditional. As a mother, I don't think it's that unconditional. That's what I feel. It's an idealistic thing, an unconditional love, but realistic is what we live in. We are humans. And that's my part of this is my content. Tribution, you might add
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