Once a fat girl forever the fat girl…🫠
I don't know if a lot of people experience this, but once you have exceeded a certain weight, like Kgs, you've been really, really heavy and you develop this sort of fear as well. So you'd never want to go back to that weight. And you know how easy it can to gain that weight. So those were my thoughts. So once a fat girl, forever a fat girl. So I wonder, how many of you have you struggled with weight?
Cheyonia Wade
@Chey · 5:00
I was hot, and I did everything. Like, I did everything you could think of to get that weight off. I was even, like, at work, I would work on my lunch hour. Like, I would power walk. I would do all types of stuff, and it just wouldn't move. I'd lose ten pounds, maybe, and that's it. And after a while, I just accepted it
So if you take out the average of weight, I would probably be on the higher end of the average, but not beyond the average. But then, too, and somehow, somewhere, that mental image of me being fatter than I was or people around me being extremely thin, I kind of accepted it, and I never really got fit. Unfortunately, unlike you, I hated sports. Like, till now
And another thing is also to love myself, despite no matter what my weight is. I think that's something I have also, like, come to understand it doesn't matter, like, what weight I am, what I look like. I still love myself. You know, I still love myself. Whether I'm, like, bigger, whether I put on weight or I lose weight, I look good either way. I think that's the confidence that I would love to have
As you said, I think I would love if every child has someone who is able to mentor them in a healthy form of self love, to love themselves wherever they are, and to grow to the healthy, loved version of themselves, both mentally, in all aspects, mentally, spiritually, and physically. That's the best thing that we can wish for, for children. So I think that was a really nice sentiment you expressed. It can only come from