@candylives
@Candy Livesherlife
@candylives · 1:42

The letter that I never sent…

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And I don't want to go back to the version of me that begged you to treat me right sometimes. I want to make you understand why I had to leave, why I had to choose myself. I had to decide to choose myself and walk away or lose myself forever. Wherever you are, I hope you know that I chose myself. But it doesn't mean that I love you any less. I want us to be happy, and I wish that with all of my heart

#selfreflection

@Lifeexplorer
sainath er
@Lifeexplorer · 0:08
Power to you and time heals. Take care
@tailored979
Meenu Kaur
@tailored979 · 3:35

@candylives

The explanation then this loop of getting angry and then me bothering over and then trying to reconcile the person and everything. But now I did it for pretty long period. And then I was like, every time I was doing this, I defined myself with a very poor or pathetic words. I would call it as. Then there was a time when I learned to say a big no to all such people around me who were treating me like a peck of dust
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Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@peeli
preethy uthup
@peeli · 1:53
Hi dear. I just want the only response I felt when I heard this is a poem from Khalil Gibran. And he's one person who has influenced my life in every level. So if ever I have something, he has an answer for it. In his book he's still living through me. I always feel that he's one of the most important person that has influenced my life. And this is what he says about love and relationship. Just hear it
@candylives
@Candy Livesherlife
@candylives · 1:24

@tailored979

Touched because I was so filled with hope to hear someone else's perspective that they have been where I am and that they have over overcome and that you get to a place where you can be filled with hope and know that you've decided what's best for yourself. And honestly, I think the hardest part was, like, walking away from someone that you loved so much, but at the same time, realizing that it is not good for you and stepping away
@candylives
@Candy Livesherlife
@candylives · 1:42

@peeli

And when I listened to your response, when I listened to the poem especially, I got very teary eyed. I resonated with it a lot, and I could feel, literally, the words sinking in and to the places where I'm wounded and I could feel me healing a little bit more. I'm just grateful. I'm just grateful that despite the experiences, the painful experiences that we have in life, that they teach us such valuable things they teach us such valuable things about relationships
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