The "B" in Betrayal
And I really, really felt like I was being treated like a cog in a machine, even though I had gone there to give my everything to work in a rural setting because they needed doctors. You know, if it was strangers, I think it would have been different. But since these were friends, I never expected it. I didn't expect that they would treat me like a stranger when I needed them the most
I had to understand that, yes, while that community had indeed allowed me to fall through and made me feel abandoned in a time that I needed them the most, not all communities are like that. And there are very nourishing and good communities that exist that poor are there for you when you need them. And another thing, I've understood that it is important not to have expectations from people and to understand that it is human. People are limited, they have limitations, and that's completely okay
Ranjana Kamo
@Gamechanger · 0:58
In some pocket or the other waiting to hurt us and probably make us stronger and learn from life. Such is the design of life. Can't help it. But take care. Hugs and lots of love to you. Have a lovely weekend. Bye
And that's where I lost my gold medal with a 0.1 CGPA. So that zero one CGPA which really hurted me a lot. So most of the time what happens is when you trust someone and that is also who are really close to you will actually take that advantage and betray you. That is what I really experienced in my life. So thank you so much for coming up with this and explaining us all these things. Have a great day
Gunjan Joshi
@Bibliophile · 3:06
Good morning, Candy. I always look forward to hear your anecdotes and your inferences from those thereafter. This one in particular depicts your profound sense of duty and your being very sensitive towards your vocation. And I think it was very brave on your part that you went to a rural village at the times when people needed you. And it is indeed very disappointing when people do not give even a fraction of emotion that you invested in your you can say in your considerate acts towards them
Himanshi Thakur
@GreyMatter · 4:59
And I know I cannot do anything about it, really? Can we? The system is so huge and I'm not a part of it, right? At least not directly, indirectly. I'm a voter. I can influence the decision in whatever minute way. But I feel betrayed. I feel betrayed regarding the facade that has been created by this system
Adarsh Rai
@TheDevilsHorse · 4:23
It's all the lush green meadows. I hope the meadows are green. It's getting late for me, right? I'm in a somber mood. I'm in a different mood altogether. So I feel you there candy. I really feel it there. While growing up, I have faced betrayals at various levels within various relationships. And it makes it even worse because I'm very observant. I can sense it. I can feel it
And I would say that I'm definitely a strong, beautiful and resilient person as a result of it. So thanks for your warm, warm hugs and I really, really appreciate it. And thanks for sharing your thoughts. Please continue sharing your wise words. Really looking forward to that as well. Bye
And I think these are things that will also help them grow to be very strong and successful people. So thank you once again, and I hope you have a lovely Tuesday. Bye
The other person is like, I can't give you what you're looking for, and then I get upset. So, as I mentioned, my solution is like, okay, I'm not going to expect this from you because you're not capable of it. But I do believe that there will be people who will be present for us in the way that we need. But till that time, I have everything. I am in the complete oasis
But it's not an easy place to be it's not an easy place to be where you are able to be open and take that risk. Anyway, those are my thoughts, advocate for the golden retriever aspects of everybody. So, yeah, just having fun with my own thoughts and also these responses. But thank you for taking the time to really like I really enjoyed really your response. It really gave me a lot of insight into how someone else navigates it
Hello, Adarsh, and good morning or whatever greeting at whatever point, you choose to listen to this response. And you made absolute sense. And I think one part of it that really struck me was when you said that you know the feeling that you get when you've been betrayed, but the people who have betrayed you seem to be, like, thriving, like, living in lush green meadows, and you sometimes wonder, where is the justice? You're like, Where is the justice?
Gunjan Joshi
@Bibliophile · 4:41
So another instance I can recall of is that I asked to several people to publicize my book and especially some of the prominent names in literary arena, and I asked them that can I send you free copies and would you please write some words for the book? So they very heartily said that oh yes, we would want that. And the way you ask for a free Shazuan sauce or a free serving in a restaurant, so everything free is welcome
Gunjan Joshi
@Bibliophile · 3:03
So she's a poet and she reads British literature extensively, and she's an avid fan of Shakespearean sonnets, and music is her vocation. So she views things that know in expecting the more emotional output from people. So her sister Eleanor tells her that not everyone has that passion for autumn and for dead leaves like you, Marianne
And we've had major conflicts because I'm somebody who's very nurturing. Even without someone saying or telling me their need, I will go ahead and take care of their need. And so, for example, especially when we are at home together, I would do all the cooking and I would just make sure that she's comfortable