This might not come out right, but the whole dynamic of the culture, the traditional energy flow, is the man is desperate for sex. And so he does everything he can do, live, he still pay for, to have have to have sex, right? And then the woman is desperate to have a home or maybe children, but a home, like, if that represents stability. And so then she'll do whatever she's willing to do, lie, cheat still to obtain that