Hello, hello, and welcome to the between Lovers podcast with Dr. T. I just wanted to briefly talk to you guys about a little bit of love. We have to have tough conversations in order to get to the love. It seems like. Why is it not so easy to just care for one another? Why is it not so easy to love on one another? Or what is the conflict that's created when people simply just need to be held or supported or cared for?
SOUL MIND
@BEAUTIFULSOULMI · 4:50
I was looking at something the other day, and the young lady said, if you're out here using regular gas in this dating world, you need to just go and park your car somewhere and go on in the house because you need premium gas to drive around in this dating world. You can't wear your feelings on your sleeve. It's not for the week. Dating today is not for the week
SOUL MIND
@BEAUTIFULSOULMI · 4:41
That word again, consistency. There's no consistency with I want you. Once I have that thought in my head, I want you. I don't want anybody else kissing me. I don't want anybody else touching me. I don't want anybody else in my space coming across my door, seal underneath my roof. I don't want to go out on dates with that person. I just don't. But this is the new thing today. Poly relationships
You're the one trying to better yourself. And if they're not, well, then they just ain't there. Or they feel like they're fine where they're at. But you still can't go back to not knowing, so you still got to work your program. I think I'm good at it. Will I get married again? Yeah, I would because I know I haven't seen my best. I haven't seen my best
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 1:43
Hello, doc. How are you? Thanks for the conversation. I feel that my roadblocks are when someone wants to get to know me, but they're not putting in the work. You know, when a man says, I like to get to know you and can we communicate? It's Mike. He expects me to do all the calling, to do all the texting, to do the conversation. And I'm like, wait a minute. As a man, I'm old fashioned
Marley Martinez
@Tenteebo · 4:50
For me personally, when I get hurt, I love. When I get hurt, I forgive. Because a bitter me and an angry me is a detrimental me. And the type of love I have is never external detriment. It's always an internal detriment. I'm always the person more aggravated or more hurt than the other. So I take all my problems to a person I know who going bear them for me, which keeps me coming back for love and searching for love
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 4:25
And so many people who've been hurt, some are afraid to open up. And those who are don't know how to understand that the process is not always easy. But I can only be who I am. Not a phony person. I'm a real person. I'm real. My commitment to someone is real. And I just want the same thing. It's not hard to love somebody
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:34
I will say that I've had people tell me more than one and I'm wise enough to know that if more than one person tells you something, you should definitely listen. Doesn't mean they're all not lying. But they probably haven't gotten together to have some sort of meeting just to lie on me. So there's probably some truth in what they say. And so I've had my ex husband and a couple of guys I dated
Dr. Tee D.
@BTWNLVRS · 0:36
You. Hi, good morning. Good morning. I just wanted to come in and first, thank you for your reply, but also to ask I heard you say that you don't know. Do you think it's possibly the fact that you might lack presence with these men not present? Because like you said, you're physically there. But are you there? Are you emotionally available? Are you in it? Are you attentive? Are you empathetic?
Dr. Tee D.
@BTWNLVRS · 1:00
You. Hello there. Thank you so much for your response. It was very heartfelt and well thought out. I greatly appreciate hearing your words. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I hope that on your journey of life, love and experience, you gain more joyful experiences of life and love. I hope that the next time you do run into love, it is actual love. It is the UN conditional love that is, by definition, actual love