Are you a person that has to consistently keep a man or keep a woman around all the time? Do you have difficulty being alone? Do you have difficulty being with self? Is your mate making you in some particular way? These things are really important because our young kids, our adolescents, our teens are learning from our patterns. We have such an impact on who they are, who they become, and what they believe they're worth
I feel very sorry for these young girls. I didn't know that this was a problem and I'm glad you brought it up. But I think it comes down to this fact. Young women need to know of their own personal value and they need to like themselves for who they are and what they are. And they have to have interests of their own that don't involve boys. Because talking about boys, thinking about boys, that's never going to get you anywhere in life