Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 4:56
1/31/2024: Don’t you ever open up to a woman! Food for thought/Triggered moment
I'm not stuck in the mindset of that little girl, even though there are days that I am that little girl. But overall, I've moved forward in my life. And a lot of times the people that you meet that are constantly throwing your past in your face is because they haven't moved past something in their life
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:05
But then there are some women that are jealous of you or envious or in some kind of way just don't like you and they'll use it against you. So I understand completely. Okay. Thanks for this. Well, it's really good one
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 4:36
Hello? All right, so it's 11:00 on a Sunday night. I'm a little bit tired. I just did a late night workout. So if I sound a little bit sluggish, please pardon me. But, Blair, I'm just listening to your post, and from a, you know, from a strictly logical standpoint, I kind of get what you're saying, but what you're ignoring is the fact that we live in a patriarchal, male dominated society
Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 1:34
My honest response to that story is, if I was that man, I wouldn't be ashamed about the relationship that I have with my mom and my former woman going out into the streets and trying to destroy my character. That's making her look crazy. My boys are my boys. And once again, they're probably mama boys with me. So they know that I'm a mama's boy. They know that I take care of mama. They know why I take care of mama
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 4:45
And to me, you're the least favorite of my kids. Aren't you going to feel a little bit shaken by that? And she's like, oh, yeah, well, yeah, but, man, I'll get over it. I'm like, no, you would not. No, you would not. You'd be sitting there blubbering and crying, and you would expect your man to comfort you in your moment of emotional crisis
Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 1:56
Or it can just be that that person, when they get angry or their emotional well is full. They just don't know how to communicate. And given whatever their experiences in life were, let's say, for example, maybe when their parents got mad, that's what they did. So then that's what they do when they get mad. And, I mean, that's a whole nother conversation. And no, I don't disagree with anything you said