Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 2:05
Rant: what is the point of setting a time if you can not respect my time?!? Make it make sense.
And then I get no communication for a few hours, and he then I get communication like, call me, because this is all via text message, essentially. Then I call. No answer. Like, what is the point of this? You what game are you trying to play? Because that sounds like a game. Like, I just don't understand this world sometimes it, you know, mmm
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:49
Hey, there is a saying when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. And one of the things that I've learned from the current relationship I am in is my boyfriend is so serious, Reese, about himself and his time, that I learned early on in our dating process
Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 3:15
Oh, jl, once again, I'm like, see you. I don't know if you knew the day that I had. And this is when I'm listening to your message, and this is when I was supposed to listen to it because I am back on the dating apps. I'm single. First of all, congratulations. S. I move sort of like your boyfriend a little bit and very prickly in the beginning and very hard on certain things for that reason
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 3:47
I just feel like since you met the person online, people have this mindset, like, well, since I really don't know this person, if I tell them I'm going to call at 08:00 and I don't call, I call at 839 or if I don't call at all. So what? I think that's just the mindset nowadays. That's just the mindset. I don't know. And to me, it's just kind of cold and it's just kind of tacky
Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 1:41
And eventually you learn, like, no, this is not for me. I can't deal with you. But that's it. That's it right there. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter where you meet a person. What matters is how they're moving, what wavelength are they on, and that match with yours
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 1:29
Yeah, but, yeah, I see your point. We have to kind of stick by our standards and our boundaries and have some emotional discipline. But I think for some people, it's hard. And I think women may have a harder time with it than men, but that's a whole nother topic. So thanks, and have a good evening. Bye