Their reasons don't matter, although it's easier to have compassion for those who control unknowingly than those who use the power of love maliciously and viciously. What matters is how you respond if it's being done to you, what matters is that you don't do it to other people. Open your heart and see the truth. Set yourself free. If someone is controlling you by using your love for them or your need to be loved, acknowledge it
Cheyonia Wade
@Chey · 1:01
Hi Blairberry. I am so proud of you. That is not an easy place to come to. It takes a lot of understanding to get to that point in life. So I applaud you and I commend you. And unfortunately, I know all too well that it definitely comes with its own share of heartbreak in order to come to that place. But I think your advice was great. I think you have great understanding in what you want and don't want. And I appreciate the advice
Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 4:58
Being alone is definitely interesting, especially the older I get. I haven't been single for that long, but the feeling of being alone has been a long one in a sense. But that's just what happened when you're kind of a little bit of a weirdo