We can't say that, though, without a barrage of criticism from parents or maybe even administration. Behaviors like bullying are thrown into the gray abyss, excusing it away as if it were someone else's fault with a due process hearing that disciplines the victim more than the bully. It even transcends schools and society has allowed this twisted behavior into the court system. It's wrong and you failed are phrases that must be reintroduced into our culture and our schools if we want bullying to become a nono in society