And I don't try to give some people too much attention because I don't want to give them the wrong impression or lead them on in some way. Particularly when I knew what this chapsexuality was and I didn't really know what his intentions were with me. So anyway, that was by the by. Anyway he messaged me saying that he was interested in coming to India and he wanted my advice. So I did respond to that message and also for my agent
And I feel bad too, because there's plenty of people who need a friend, want a friend, or need to vent, have rough lives, that my heart goes out to them. But at the same time, we can't be there for everyone and sometimes can't even be there for the ones that we are close with just because we're not equipped that day. I think it's official, Bendy. You're a human
Nidhin George 🔷
@geo_rhymes · 4:16
But as we sat having coffee, my date talks about how she wants to keep her options open and she likes me and she wants to continue seeing, but she can't really commit to a relationship or anything. There are other men that she's seeing, other men that she's romantically involved with. And if that's a problem for me, I said, Well, I wouldn't want to get romantically involved unless we're both on the same page and unless we're thinking about keeping it exclusive
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Benedict Garrett
@Bendi_G · 0:32
Oh, no, Christina. I don't know what's worse for me to have to deal with the fact that I know I can be an asshole or the uncomfortable fact that I must just be human. Nice to hear from you, Christina. Good to hear your voice again. I've missed missed that voice. Hope is well with you and look forward to hearing it some more
Benedict Garrett
@Bendi_G · 1:50
Yes, I mean, self awareness, of course, is a brilliant thing. And you're right, I'm more than aware whenever I think I'm being an asshole. Although, as you question it, you don't feel that the examples I've given are that much of an asshole. I suppose it's how I deal with it, how I put across myself to the other person that can also demonstrate my asshole
Rohan RR
@SpecialMission · 0:52
Ah. I think you have to do two things depending upon which works. Keep doing it. So, firstly, you have to ask your partner that you need help from her and notice her reaction and stop taking care of people and start taking care of yourself. Like, literally. So you're trying to help and you're trying to take care of people, which is not in your best interest. So take the power away and give the power to yourself. And welcome to India