They know that you are a valuable stake in their life. But there are some people that will take advantage of that. They'll keep you around and continue to benefit from you as a person. They'll benefit from your ex, from your love. They'll benefit from your forgiveness. But then at the same time, they will take advantage of it, and they won't give it in return. They won't give love. They won't give loyalty
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 4:51
It's crazy because I told a guy this morning, these exact words, I said, hey, I made my decision as far as dealing with you and everything that has to do with you, and I'm okay with it, but what I will not do is try to prove my value to you. And I saw myself trying to do that. I was like, well, I'm the type that when I was around you, I was this, I was that
LaDorris T
@beingelletea · 1:49
So that's what jumped out to me when you started giving your analogy about you trying to prove your value and prove your worth to him. And then I want to tell you, like, no, don't focus on needing to do more work. Not saying that you are perfect and you don't need to do more work