Hey, y'all. Hey. Well, I decided to come on here and do a swell right quick because I'm not really so sure how to even begin broaching what is somewhat of a sensitive topic, but it is an important topic nevertheless. It's about a conversation that my girls and I have repeatedly been having over I'm not going to say a week, not going to say a month, not going to say the past year, but years, a conversation we've been having for years
David Evans
@thenotoriousdke · 1:34
And it leads to men thinking sex is more about their pleasure than their partners, whereas women are more sensual by nature and by sensible meaning. Not just sexual acts, but the smell, the sounds that go into things. Also painting the visual. And we do miss the mark. But the one thing I think women could do a better job of is communicating their sexual needs
Chloe Barksdale
@beingchloeb · 2:57
Now it's take off the clothes, get into bed, start eating, p**** slap, your digging a mouth, and then it's time to f***. All the other stuff that was in between has fallen by the wayside and a lot of women are complaining about it, but a lot of women are still not being heard. So, yes, we are having those conversations. We're having those conversations in major ways. It's just not connecting
David Evans
@thenotoriousdke · 0:51
So then the question is, why is there a disconnect? I would agree that a certain percentage of men are selfish when it comes to sex because they only view sex for their own pleasure versus pleasure for their partner as well. But there are a substantial number of men who definitely want to please their woman. But we run into situations where we aren't necessarily picking up the clues as to what it is that she wants or needs. So can you answer that?
Chloe Barksdale
@beingchloeb · 3:14
So you mean to tell me something that a twelve year old, 13 year old do, sneaking do is more intimate than you actually connecting to a woman where you're inside of her body or a woman allowing a man inside of his body? When we got to the point where we will take a scene from Pretty Woman where a prostitute says that she don't kiss because it's too personal and we apply that to our daily lives, that in itself lets you know the disconnection and why
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
David Evans
@thenotoriousdke · 1:14
I can't speak for a lot of other men because I'm not in the bedrooms, and of course, I'm not doing anything with another man, so I'll speak for myself on this. I've always been the type of person to try to get to know a woman first, because if you know her mind, then you will know her body and you will know what her you know, you'll understand her and what it takes to please her