So they would continue to try and try and try things on me just to see how much I could bear or how much I could endure. To give the benefit of the doubt is to believe something good about someone rather than something bad. When you have the possibilities of doing either to continue and willingly trust someone when their very actions have made you uncertain of the truth
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 2:50
Good morning. Good morning, Miss So. How are you? This is the queen benefit of doubt. That's that's our whole life, when we come in contact with people that we meet, that we're getting to know, even family, church, work, personal lives, until a person show me who they really are, I'm going to believe you
SOUL MIND
@BEAUTIFULSOULMI · 2:17
And today that's how I sit here with my glass of trust just cracked in so many different places that it's just seeping and oozing out all over everything. So I tend to have a history of overthinking, which to me could be the equivalent to self doubt. This is me today being held accountable for my undesirable past decisions to dispute my intuitive reasoning, just to give you a vision of that, giving my thoughts and my beliefs a ring to fight it out
L A
@homosanity · 4:36
So I got some drinks, and I felt really awkward, but I just felt really bad for this guy. So I went over. The guy didn't ask me anything about myself, but I just listened to him. And he's a great singer, so I listened to him sing and listen to his stories, and we talked about stuff and whatever. And as soon as I left on Facebook, he posted about how terrible he felt
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 4:17
And evidently he probably has pushed everyone away. So that's why he probably don't have anyone. Because when you went over, I wouldn't have took nothing to drink. Because if you say he was a recovery from drugs, I'm not going to bring nothing to the party that might cause you to slip or go to rehab again, go through it again. But when you went and gave support and then after you left, they still wanted to be the victim and he made you the villain
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 5:00
You can't hold them accountable for somebody else's pain that was caused on you because they may just be the one that helped you through it, but with your guard up, you'll never let them in. And what you just have to do is say, you know what, God, I allow this pain in me. I trusted someone I shouldn't have trusted. Or even if there is no intuition and this person come into your life and hurt you, they only built your character
SOUL MIND
@BEAUTIFULSOULMI · 1:47
I never thought I could just replace the trust glass, but isn't that what I do if I break a glass in the kitchen? We don't bandaid it together or glue it together, or we just throw the glass out and go to Walmart or Stein Mart or wherever it is you go to get more glasses? I got to laugh at myself sometimes. I do. But I am enjoying my healing journey, and I appreciated your reply. I receive everything that you said
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:57
I want you to know you can come to me and as always, talk about anything and mistakes are going to happen, not just because this is the first week of school. There's going to be other things that come up that are new to both of us and challenging to both of us, and we might not respond or take the correct steps initially