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Masha Rooh
@Ba-Dastoor┬а┬╖┬а4:16

Demisexuality ~ A boon or bane?

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Often people judge you being demisexuality boon bane be under various scenarios like where demisexual people's emotional bond is often misunderstood as only for sexual or romantic attraction, whereas it may be just friendship, including platonic friendship. Another scenario could be where demisexual people are considered as too slow as they take their own time in developing certain emotions before having such sexual relationships. And often being emotionally bonded might not sometimes lead to sexual attraction too

Demisexuality ~ A boon or bane?Are we confusing the emotional bond formed under, with love or romance? Are we Judged/labled? #askswell

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Nidhin George ЁЯФ╖
@geo_rhymes┬а┬╖┬а4:37

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It is how you see yourself, how you perceive yourself within your environment. That's absolutely fair. I think the real challenge happens when people start, one, lying to themselves and two, lying to others or their potential partner in order to get something that they want with minimal to no consideration about the other person. For example, someone who is using their emotional availability just to get sexual intimacy is lying to themselves but also lying to their partner by fooling their partner
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