Qua Thomas
@ATalkWithQua · 5:00
Husbad to Ex Husband!!
And this is something that I am supposed to process, someone supposed to live through, and something I'm supposed to grow from. So other than that, if that's not what I'm doing, I'm dwelling on the situation. I'm living in the past because I divorced him now. So it's like, it ain't really nothing for us to talk about. You know what I'm saying? I've never caught my husband physically cheating on me
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@NoFilter247 · 4:52
I mean, that's all I can say, that feeling, that love never goes away. So my second question is, do you still love your ex husband? Is there still love there? I mean, I know you probably don't want to go in fully details on why and what happened, but is it still love there, or you all still having some type of relationship? Do you have kids or how long you guys was married? Do yeah
Qua Thomas
@ATalkWithQua · 4:57
I think I should write it down a little bit so I can remember. But we actually divorced about two months ago. And yes, I do love him so much. Honestly, kind of looking back on it and having revelation that I'm having at this moment, I think this was the most hurt that I've ever been. And that is the reason why for me, it was so easy for me to move on that fast. Let me say, we both mutually decided to get a divorce
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@NoFilter247 · 5:00
Honestly, this is why I do not want to get married. I want to, but I don't at the same time, because I feel like the s*** that we're going through in a relationship, if you can't handle my let me start off saying that I am dealing with a mental illness
Qua Thomas
@ATalkWithQua · 5:00
So I told him after we solidify the divorce that I'm going to talk to other dudes and we're going to break up. So that's pretty much like what happened. But I started going online saying, like, you know what? And he did not like that. So getting a boyfriend and going online were the things that I did to disrespect him. However, that was like, literally at the end, after we solidified that, we will get a divorce. And we did
Qua Thomas
@ATalkWithQua · 4:38
I'm seeing the way that you move, and I'm seeing how you are. So my dude was very friendly, and it was to the point where it was cute if that was your real personality. Like, if you are a real gentleman, that's cute. But if you are just a friendly a** n****, you're more than a gentleman. You think that this is acceptable, and it's not. You are a married man
Qua Thomas
@ATalkWithQua · 4:56
And I would say, So should I go talk to somebody else? Because, mind you, I will be crying trying to talk to him, and he will be, I don't give a f*** what you're doing. I don't care if well, if that's what you got to do, then go do that and then come back to me. And I just did not understand, because, once again, we married. I'm your wife
Qua Thomas
@ATalkWithQua · 5:00
It's not that I don't care, but I'm answering your questions. And yes, I was talking like that. Yes, I told you I was going to talk like that. I'm trying to talk to you. You're not trying to talk to me. I asked you, do you want a divorce? And you said yes, okay? What more is there to do? Yes, I could wait until I leave this house to talk like that
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@NoFilter247 · 2:51
But you know that gut woman, you know that woman's intuition. We don't love 100 with it, you know what I'm saying? So I'm not stupid, but he thinks I am. You know what I'm saying? I'm not stupid. Come on now. You think you date you with a fool novel? Mama didn't raise no fool. I know what it is. But you want to lie to me
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@NoFilter247 · 4:36
And when we broke up, I don't know how he felt about the whole situation, but with me, I've been in a house like told you, I'm not a social person. So I'm just in my house, I don't do all that. I don't know what he was doing. And by listening to you, like I said on my other recording, it sounds like he checked out a long time ago
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@NoFilter247 · 2:10
A man could be laying ex to you and be texting another woman a man. If he's stepping outside and talk on the phone, baby, that is dead m************ giveaway. If he's sitting up in his f****** car for a while and says that he's on the phone, dead giveaway, girl, I'm telling you, they don't communicate. It's some actions
Qua Thomas
@ATalkWithQua · 2:46
And I was already over there this morning listening to some stuff before I was replying. So I'm going to come back over there to your page. I might have come over there and listen to some more things and I'll talk with you later on. Hey, tomorrow