It could also be communication that's lacking a little bit, right? So somebody who drops into your DMs and is like, hey, how are you doing? You look great, or hey, it's been a really long time, what are you up to? But something about the gravity of this particular situation is going to leave you feeling a little bit lackluster. This person does have very deep feelings for you. However, they are not willing at this point to go into those feelings just yet