So I want you to think for just a quick second about your parents and if you are upset by the way that you were parented or not parented, either being like a helicopter mom, helicopter dad, or being totally absent, whatever the situation might be, you have two choices. You can either blame them, which keeps you stuck, because you're waiting for them to make some sort of course correction
But somehow, when I hear it from you, I truly, truly feel that this is a message from the universe that is coming to me, and you have been carefully chosen to share it with me because I will only listen when it is coming from you. The same message was coming from somebody else. I may not have paid any attention to it
Carly D
@Astroality · 1:23
It's. Thank you so much for this heartfelt review of sorts. This was incredible, and I can't even begin to put into words the way it makes me feel to hear that from you. You are a bright, beautiful soul in this world, and the world is so much better for having you in it. And I'm so glad and I'm honored to be that voice for you
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Okay. Could not agree with you more. Yeah, my parents had it tough growing up, and therefore I did. And I was stuck for a very long time because I kept blaming them. I kept blaming them. I kept blaming them. And I finally stopped years ago. And I've been a much happier person, because that negative energy and all that time spent focusing on that, I don't I'm not using it anymore, and it's not depleting me mentally
Carly D
@Astroality · 1:33
You. I love something that you mentioned here that is so true, so crucial, and so often overlooked. When you're wasting your energy waiting for apologies, waiting for accountability, assigning blame, it's so exhausting. You feel mentally tired, physically tired, emotionally burnt out. It's unbelievable what it does to your energy. And once you reclaim that energy and you decide to take accountability and you decide to be empowered about it and make some necessary changes, the whole game changes
He said, you may never change your mom's mind. And it's trivial anyway. It's not like somebody's going to get in a bad accident because she believes this way or another. It's no big thing. You got to find something to do with yourself. Because if you got that much time to be dealing with your mom like that and you come over all the way over here to ask me about it, you're doing too much
Carly D
@Astroality · 1:39
I was that person at one time. Right. And I think that you said something so key. It's like, it's about growth. It's about reclaiming your power and saying, I'm not going to let energy vampires or whatever take from me. Right. Because that's just me giving it away. They didn't take anything that I wasn't willing to give. Right. So you said some really important things, and I'm super grateful for each and every one of them