Married but Living Alone!
So I am so grateful. I'm so grateful every single day that I have a safe place to be in and that I'm living close to my parents. People look at a divorced or an abandoned woman as if she doesn't have the right to be on earth anymore. And men, I won't say all, but many men feel that now this woman is up for grabs. And I've really experienced that
preethy uthup
@peeliĀ Ā·Ā 2:00
Hi dear, after hearing your swell, I just want to congratulate you and be brave because I would try to tell you that I was in a slightly different situation, but somewhat the same, I would say because I was widowed when I was 30 and now I am 60. So you can see the years that I have gone through alone. Of course I had kids, but there's a time when they also fly away. So the power of being alone is a great freedom, I would say
Maurice Lekea
@malekeaĀ Ā·Ā 3:24
You. Hello. Thank you for sharing your experience. I think many of us here can relate to that. I personally can relate to your story. The loneliness is good when you are physical alone. But when you have someone or you are married or you are in a relationship or wherever and you feel alone, that kills you softly. You feel like something inside of you is dying little by little. But when you are alone physically, of course you miss something
Saikumar srungarapu
@sai_051Ā Ā·Ā 4:41
But also you have to remember one thing my dear friend, not everyone who comes to you expects something but there are some really true people who really does their life, sacrifice their life for the loud ones. So it is always important that you recognize those people and keep in touch with them. And yeah, being single is one kind of a blessing but at the same time it is one kind of a sin actually
Nidhin George š·
@geo_rhymesĀ Ā·Ā 4:18
That's just how men behave in general. They're always opportunistic generally, and if they have an idea that a woman is available, I think they try their luck on her. Men, on the other hand, well, their fate is a bit more dull. Regardless of the relationship status of a man, the level of interest and attention that he gets does not vary
Pragati Chopra
@Pragati.chopraĀ Ā·Ā 2:19
Yes, men think that ladies or the women who are staying alone, they are available. But on the other hand, like you mentioned, that you are dealing with this chain in a good way. And yes, it can be an intense and satisfying experience because the concept of personal space as a woman is still alien for us because we never draw boundaries for people who hurt us or who are generally not good for our lives. We need to have that empty space to have this innumerable conversations with us
Dharmin Chanda
@bombaybluesĀ Ā·Ā 4:51
Lastly, without having been all judgmental or superficial about any of these aspects, believe you me, in absolute honesty, I wish to laud the courage, the hope and such wonderful zest that you have towards life and your connection with your own self. That little garden, the nature clad attitude that has got you going. Of course, the way you've sort of built your own place up, the way you went about reciting it in your swell, I truly couldn't laud you enough about it
Surya V
@welcome28Ā Ā·Ā 4:28
And yes, we should not be delaying certain things if it is not working out better. It's always better to come out of a relationship. There is no point in slogging for a relationship. The relationship is more personal and should fall in its place. The other day when I was conversing with my friend casually he said that he is working for a relationship. I don't know what is this working for a relationship? Maybe my thinking is outdated. I don't know
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77Ā Ā·Ā 3:18
Hey, this is a great swell cast. Me having been single my entire life, I couldn't imagine what it would be like to go from being in a marriage where you had someone with you all the time, for the most part, and then to go back to a life of being alone. I'm sure it was quite an adjustment, even though you were already living on your own when it happened
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKayeĀ Ā·Ā 2:51
Just whatever the price is the price. I wasn't unopposed to meeting someone like that. But I just think that if I remeat for business, let it stay business. Don't try to be my boyfriend just because I happen to be single and what have you. So I definitely understand feeling very vulnerable and feeling like everybody wants something from you or they're doing things for you just so they can be with you
MindOverMatter
@DTalksĀ Ā·Ā 1:31
Johothahe acheilihi huta and I just blanked out. All I'll say is count your blessings, Ash. You have your family with you, supporting you. And that's all I'll say. Count your blessings, Ashtar. Count them and keep them close
Sreeja V
@WordsmithĀ Ā·Ā 1:12
I think coming from a space of gratitude is the best thing to do, like you have done. And it is very inspiring to remember the things that one has to be grateful for. And even during the most challenging of times, I think a day by day, I mean, it's going to be one day at a time, perhaps one moment at a time. But are it is going to happen. And you're going to welcome the new chapter very happily, but it will take time
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_SpeaksĀ Ā·Ā 4:08
And I know marriages go have ups, and they have downs, and you don't run at the first sign of trouble. But again, you get to a point where you're in a marriage if you're constantly alone, you get to a point where you're like, you know what? I can be alone and be alone. I shouldn't be in a marriage and be alone
Meenu Kaur
@tailored979Ā Ā·Ā 4:27
And the pathos is that most of us are forced to bear that because of our conditioning. We are told not to leave the house. We are told to make compromises, we are told to make adjustments no matter how hard the situations get. And the woman who takes a bold step to be out of that torture or abuse, I would call it as or a step out towards her success. The woman definitely earns the title of being spoiled, brat and characterless