Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:56
A Single Pastor shuts down women who believe he is their husband! Lets chat!
I mean, you do all this, you put it out there like that. Now, if other women come forward and say, I was talking to him, he wanted to meet me. We slept with him. Everybody's going to think they're lying because he kind of got ahead of it. He could be telling the truth, but this also could be damage control. What do you all think? Let's talk about it again. Keep it respectful
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 0:42
Oh, one other thing that I want to add, and this is, in his defense, he could very well be in a relationship and isn't ready to go public with it. And this is the way of just kind of shutting it down and still maintaining his privacy
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:47
When you're a single man, especially a single man of God, he's anointed. He's an anointed musician. He's an anointed preacher of the gospel. That anointing attracts women. I mean, he's a handsome guy, but that anointing on his life attracts women. And so a lot of women who envision themselves as being someone's being a pastor's wife. You got some women out there whose dream is to be somebody's first lady in a church
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:25
Hey, Tanya, thanks for your feedback. I agree. Like, I follow him on social media, I haven't had any reason to unfollow him. I have heard him address this issue a few times, but that's just something that, okay, he always addresses it, but doctrinally, there's nothing that made me unfollow him. In fact, he's been one of the few people who will offer up a prophetic insight for the new year and it be on point
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:59
Or when my mom passed away, maybe like a month after she passed away, maybe two months after she passed away, we started seeing this great, big influx of single women coming to our church. And these women were doing everything in their power to be seen. And they were coming with big hats on and fancy dresses. And some of these women I had seen, been seeing all my life and had never seen them dress the way that they were dressing when they were coming to the church
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:46
He literally moved the girl from South Carolina up to Connecticut. That was his wife. And so, yeah, dating inside the congregation is messy. You're not supposed to poop where you eat. So I commend him for saying that, because you're not supposed to mess with it. But, yeah, even with this particular pastor that I'm talking about, when he got married, the female membership of the church dropped. I guess the woman was like, I'm out of here now
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:32
And so for them, that's the message that they need to see, okay, he really loved his wife, and they have a really devoted marriage and relationship. So I know to back off from that. But people like pastor YPJ and other pastors who've never been married or pastors like in your dad's case, that are widowed. Yes. The women come because they aspire to be a pastor's wife and because they're told they need to marry a pastor
LaShekia Chatman
@Sheika_MC · 1:59
Hey dear Auntie so first of all, I was cracking up. Like when you said it's an inside conversation that right there had me cracking up, then watched the video and everything. Every single thing you said about the demeanor and the character and kind of the energy behind his statement, I agree with you 100%
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:48
Hi Lashekia. And if I said your name wrong, please, please correct me and forgive me. Thanks for chiming in. Yes, I mentioned that this particular pastor, because I follow him on Instagram, I actually follow him on Facebook, too, but I don't really see his post too much. Maybe the algorithm. But he has mentioned time and time again about people thinking they're in a relationship with him
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:30
I just like the message. I'm going to tell you about the message. I get it. If he has a large following and enough that people would imitate him to try to swindle women for credit use and money and all that type of thing, I could see in terms of setting order and making sure he's protecting his flock that he says, hey, listen, don't do that. Be smart about your dealings with dating
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:26
Hi, Jl. Yes, I can tell that you were not at a loss for words, but maybe trying to grasp the right words to convey your feelings. I certainly understand it. And there are a lot of women, myself included, who are not interested in dating a pastor. Not at all. Was there a time when I was probably interested in that, probably before I ever dated one. And then I realized, oh, heck, no. Oh, my gosh
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:54
You. Oh, my gosh. I was going to bring up a similar incident that happened in my early 20s also. I did the same thing. And really, I did it as a joke. I met a guy that was in training, if you will, to be a pastor. And like I said already, I knew at that point in time in my life, not interested. And so I just wanted to see how quickly he would fold
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 1:54
And I was just like, yo, this guy is crazy. And trust me, it wasn't due to lack of sex. Right? I can see if you ain't had it in a minute and you now have a woman in your life, and you're like, oh, I'm about to get some. Hey. But he just really, like, it wasn't no fun, because it was, like, so lustful. When I say weird, I say weird