Maybe we're not going to be all up in the spa. Maybe we're not going to have all these pictures for the gram. But we can love one another. We can pay our bills. We can eat meals together. We can go bike riding. We can raise our kids. It's okay. It's okay to love imperfect people. For whoever needed to hear this today. All right, y'all go ahead and have yourself a blessed day. Talk to you soon
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:15
But is your type going to keep you in a box that's so tight for you that you can't evelyn get out and find anybody because you're limiting your pool of possibilities? So I agree with you. It's okay to love imperfect people
All I did was hold her, you know what I mean, and let her talk. And then I would talk to her and take her where she had to go, you know what I mean? Whatever. But I really would feel like that I wouldn't have came out of this so smooth if I would have not have been good to her in that area or if I would have dismissed it. I really would have felt like it's coming back on me
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:41
Hey, SIS, thank you for this. I think all of us are loving its imperfect people. Matter how we how much we try to search for perfection, we're all loving imperfect people because we ourselves are imperfect people. And so, yes, it is okay to love imperfect people because honestly, we don't really have a choice. None of us are perfect. None of us have arrived, so to speak
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:45
And yet what is it netting you? Did you do all these things and then find your husband, your wife? Or did you do all these things and you're still ten years in the dating game? So clearly cutting everybody off and having a strong cut off game and giving people zero leeway ain't working. So let's try something different
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 0:27
Mike. Oh, hey, Evelyn. Thanks so much for stopping by. And thank you for what? You know, we keeping everybody in a box? Really? We keep ourselves in a box, right. And we keep everybody out. It's like, don't come in this perfect box with your imperfections. Okay? Well, guess what? There's already imperfections in that box because if I'm in there, there's imperfection. So thank you so much for chiming in, as always
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:03
My friend was telling me that her husband and she and her husband at the time she told me this, had not had sex in more than two years. And when she told me, I asked her why and she's like, well, he's dealing with depression and he had been out of work and ain't no real man going to really not be bringing nothing to the table and all of that stuff and really feel like a man and be in the mood and all of that
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:57
And there's other things now. I'm looking at somebody companionship and communication and traveling and sharing experiences. So now my thought pattern is different. And so, yeah, the person that I am in relation and here's the thing, even with my family members, even with the people at my church, everywhere we go, there's imperfect people. And so we have to give people grace because we want people to give us grace
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:38
I should do a swell on that because we seem to miss that a lot, especially, I say, in the church, and we probably talked about this before on various swells, but when I get information about dating as a single Christian. A lot of it if it's something I'm reading in the first couple of sentences or if I'm watching a video in the first couple of minutes, I can tell if it's for me or not