@anisharodrigues
Anisha Rodrigues
@anisharodrigues · 5:00

Toxic Relationships :- Know the Red Flags 🚩

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You should be able to listen my problems. You should be able to feel my emotions and at certain times even provide insight on how I could solve a problem. Better be my comfort zone. Just give me that extra love, that care, that protection that I want. Toxic relationships do not sound like this, okay? Toxic relationships sound dominating, abusive, negligent, careless and very to minimum feelings of acknowledgment as such. So the next time you see these red flags, please don't ignore it

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@mayurikannan
Mayuri Kannan
@mayurikannan · 0:58

@anisharodrigues

And if they are forcing things, like forcing the other person to be in that relationship, or even though they are giving, they are giving it in a wrong way, then even that might change into a toxic relationship. Ship right. This is my point of view. But however, this very good topic to talk in today's world. Thank you. Bye
@Urvashi373
Urvashi singh
@Urvashi373 · 0:55
It. Hi Anisha, you have chose a very wonderful topic and your voice made it more wonderful. I would like to add something that after leaving a family relationships it's very difficult to cope with the situation for the person who want to continue the relationship but unfortunately it couldn't. So they need to normalize their life for giving some time for their self, taking care of their self love yourself and accord self love matters a lot
@Prriya_3184
Priya Mandhal
@Prriya_3184 · 1:11

In order to improve any relationship equal contribution is required from both the side

I should give the same quality of contribution in a relationship in the same manner as the other person is giving in that same relationship. So there have to be an equal give and take of the contribution. So with this proper give and take in a relationship, by providing an equal amount of contribution, equal amount of efforts, equal amount of attention to each other, we can easily turn a toxic relationship into a healthy relationship. Thank you
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@PragyaVats
Pragya Vats
@PragyaVats · 1:02

Toxic relationships should be acknowledged and worked upon #collegevoiceindia #swellcast

I agree with you about the emotional burden that person has to feel just due to being in a relationship which was meant to be fulfilling in the first place. Thus, I would like to say if there is more negative in the situation than the positive, something has to change for betterment of both the partners in a relationship. Thank you
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@anisharodrigues
Anisha Rodrigues
@anisharodrigues · 0:46

@mayurikannan

Even giving too much or giving less or not giving properly in a manner or taking too much, taking too less, not knowing how to take or receive a gift nicely or take stuff in a relationship nicely, that also, again, is problematic and it's very toxic. So I agree with your point. Thank you so much for applying to myself
@anisharodrigues
Anisha Rodrigues
@anisharodrigues · 0:34

@shivayapangasa

But, yeah, we need to take help because we cannot rely on ourselves for most vats, and that taking help is necessary and essential. So thank you for replying to my as well. Thank you so much
@anisharodrigues
Anisha Rodrigues
@anisharodrigues · 0:19

@Urvashi373

Thank you so much, Urvashi, for applying to my swell. I agree with each and everything you have to say in this well, and I hope that people do come out from the toxic relationships they have been in and will be able to do just better for themselves. So thank you so much again for applying to
@anisharodrigues
Anisha Rodrigues
@anisharodrigues · 0:17

@Prriya_3184

Thank you so much, Priya, for replying to my swell. And I totally agree with your advice and thank you for this new piece of advice that you've added to this. Well, I hope you engage more with my content. And thank you again for replying to my swell. Thank you so much
@anisharodrigues
Anisha Rodrigues
@anisharodrigues · 0:18

@PragyaVats

Hey, Pragya, thank you so much for replying back to my swell. And I totally agree with whatever you have to say. And, Mark, thank you for your valuable inputs on this. Well, thank you so much. And do stay engaged with my content. Thank you so much
@kritikajuneja98
Kritika
@kritikajuneja98 · 1:38
Sometimes the role is played by both the persons on the relationship, be it a romantic relationship or sibling relationship or any other relationship or platonic friendship. It could be anything, right? And I think it is both. It is done by both of them because according to me, in today's world, like, even in general, the one who's suffering is equally at the wrong side, like the one who is basically manipulating you or torturing you or being toxic to you
@anisharodrigues
Anisha Rodrigues
@anisharodrigues · 0:58

@kritikajuneja98

Hey, critica, thank you for your opinion. I definitely do agree with all that you have to say. Yeah. In this situation, sometimes both people can be toxic, and, you know, sometimes it's really toxic to, you know, just keep suffering. It's better that you voice your opinion and, you know, stand against the toxicity. You know, the one who's torturing is also toxic
@Sejal_Sharma
Sejal Sharma
@Sejal_Sharma · 1:34
And when our partner, who is behaving rudely with us every day, and that has become our normal, shows a basic thing that he should be doing in a relationship. We feel like, wow, that is so special. When it's not. We need to know our self worth, and we need to know that whatever we have normalized in a relationship, it's just normal. He has to do that. That's the basic minimum
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@anisharodrigues
Anisha Rodrigues
@anisharodrigues · 0:46

@Sejal_Sharma

You should have enough courage to just come out of all the toxic stuff and be more empowered and just take the courage to come out of that toxic relationship. So thank you so much for applying to my as well. Thanks a lot
@arukshitadeswal
Arukshita Deswal
@arukshitadeswal · 0:52
Toxic relationships also take a toll on our mental health and one thing from which it can be solved is either communication or if it's not solving even after communication then and the things are not working out the way it should, then leaving the person is also something that should be considered instead of sticking with the person and degrading your mental health. I loved yourself. Thank you so much
@anisharodrigues
Anisha Rodrigues
@anisharodrigues · 0:14

@arukshitadeswal

Hey, Arukshita. Thank you for replying to my swell. And I'm glad that you could take something from this well and that you agreed with a lot of points. I said so thank you so much for replying back to my swell. Thank you
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