So she filed for divorce. And then some people say that she was saying she was going to release the text messages. Other people said she just had them to help her with her divorce. However, the man went and killed her. So he's saying he killed her because he loved her and she filed for divorce. Other people are saying he killed her because she found out that he was gay and she was going to tell people
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:54
And and I don't know if he was there, if all of her children were by him or not, but if they were, now they've lost their mother and their father all because he didn't tell her up front so that she could make a choice in the beginning
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:40
So I'll say that when anyone decides to leave an abusive marriage while you're leaving is when you're at the greatest risk while you're still in the house. It's safer. Once you get out and get to a new place, you're safer. But while leaving is usually the most dangerous time, and so that definitely seems to be what happened here. The backstory of him being gay and what have you sounds like he might have been abusive, period
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 3:08
It makes me go right back to that year. Go right back to that abuse in my head. Go right back to that and say, my God, it could have been me. Hallelujah, Jesus. Thank you, Jesus. It's not me. But it could have been
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:39
And let me say this. I don't condone violence, which I told you about. This was in complete self defense. Complete self defense. And that is the reason why I did not go to prison. Because I wasn't in the wrong. I was trying to defend myself. Not that you guys absolutely need an explanation, but I wanted to offer one. In case somebody else heard this and thought it's okay to hurt someone because they hurt you. It's not. But self preservation?
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:10
Maybe the intimacy with a woman will help fix these urges. I have to be with men and they hide it, even though for some of them, their mannerisms pretty much give it away. But they will hide it. And these women will sometimes these women know, they already know this dude is gay, but I'm going to help him be the straight man that he needs to be for the purposes of his image or whatever
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:56
I had him report something about my son. Totally unsubstantiated, a bold faced lie. But he tried to ruin me, take my son, our son, and put him in foster care. Talk about some put him in a good home. And the social worker was like, wait, you don't want your son with you? I got stories. I got stories. So I'm very familiar with this. I know it's painful
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
And it's the same thing with I used to be at this church I used to go to, and this man, he got up, and he said that it's going to take a special woman to be with him. And I said, and you are so right. And I said it so loud
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
I said, listen, I am not looking for anyone. I'm not looking for anyone, but if I did, it would have to be a real man. I would never be somebody's cover, because that's really all it is. It's a cover. You want to marry somebody because for whatever reason, you feel like your family or your peers or whoever are not going to like you. So you marry a woman for a cover. And let me put this out there
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:49
Thank you so much for that. I appreciate it. And, yeah, it looks like we both have stories. I don't want to take over Ms. Andrea's swell because her swell was about this man killing his wife because she was trying to escape him. But it triggered me. So here we go again with that triggered word. Yes, I will admit it triggered me. But, yeah, we can get together maybe in a private message or something like that
SOUL MIND
@BEAUTIFULSOULMI · 4:55
I could not imagine the devastation that young woman felt, and then her life was taken from her. But yeah, I did speak about this. I'm not sure if the majority of women will ever even consider giving a man a safe space. The safe space for me right now to compromise from listening to that young man speak in that video was I'm back in the dating world and I need to ask you just right up front. Do you like sleeping with men?
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
You. Hello, beautiful soul. Listen, I understand what he was saying, but men have to realize that they're the ones that created that. It's most men if you ask most heterosexual men what is their fantasy, it's for them to sleep with two women at the same time
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:17
That was something that he said to her. I never had a man say that to me, and I pray to God that I don't never have one said that to me. Because if I do, we're going to have a problem. We're going to move some furniture. But, yeah, people have to give people their choice, and you have to allow people to make their choice. Because here's the thing. You making your choice