So he put Adam to sleep, took out Adam's rib and made Eve. Now, what God was showing me was so significant about it, was that God saw that Adam shouldn't be alone, and so he gave him Eve. And so, yeah, I can put myself out there in the dating field, and I can say I am ready to date
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:57
Because now when we see each other, because we don't see each other every day, maybe we see each other once a month or twice a month. We want to spend more time just being with each other and talking face to face and building that connection than we're worried about jumping in the bed. Right. And so I think that will be the same thing. And then even with that, I think the man for me will be he'll be okay with that
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 2:05
So in this well, you mentioned that I think it was in the first part, you mentioned that the guy from or I think it was the guy who found his wife in Jamaica or something like that, and he asked God and he said that his wife was going to come from Jamaica, something like that. And then we spoke about the two that was in church, and he asked her out, and he was very protective of her. And then you spoke about your father
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
And so my face may not be the most approachable, and sometimes, even when I'm out in public, I try to work on that, but sometimes my face is not really approachable. And so that could be why men haven't approached me, because maybe I don't look approachable, maybe I'm not their type. So that's why men have and
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 3:02
And I heard you say that, too, that people kind of judged you by your appearance. And so when people do that, they really miss the best parts of you, right? Because a lot of times, the best parts of us I can speak for myself. The best parts of me are nothing that you can see externally. I mean, my smile is good. I love my smile. I think I have a beautiful smile
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:52
It. Hey, SIS, this is good. I really believe, like, the examples that you laid out, I really believe that dating is really that simple. Because if we use and employ the wisdom of God, he will lead us to our spouse. I think that we have overcomplicated it in our society. We've made it seem as though we've got to be doing something. Faith without works is dead. You've got to be doing something
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:46
We got these kinds of things that we're competing I'm going to say we're competing against. But this is the kind of stuff that's being put out there in the world, is that a man can't check in too much because he being soft. He whipped his nose wide open, this and that. He a simp. He a beta. And then women, if a man does check on them frequently, he's stalking me. He's trying to control me
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:37
You are so right. And me personally, I like that. Like, I was dating this one gentleman, and he lived in Illinois, and so he texted me a couple of times when I was on my way there just to make sure I was okay. And then he even called me, like, hey, you know, you didn't text back really quickly, so I just wanted to make sure everything was okay. And I was like, Dude, I was in traffic
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 5:00
And in that case, they don't deserve to get to know you. And I agree with you 1000% because how do you judge a person before getting to know them? You don't have to necessarily date them, but that's what people do. And I know because I've been through it a lot and I still go through it
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
So if I only got with you because sex was good, what are we going to do when we can't have it? What if we got together because sex was good, but we really don't even like talking to each other? So then when we can no longer have sex, what are we supposed to do? Because we don't even like talking to each other, what are we supposed to do? So those type of things, right, those type of things come into play
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 4:59
And what I mentioned, I believe I may have mentioned it in there, but I say that it's so important, so important to have that mental connection with your partner and the ability to communicate, to talk and to do other things outside the bedroom. Because in a relationship, you're going to spend more time with your clothes on than off. And when I talk to, they'd be like, no, that's crazy
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 3:50
And you believe that you deserve a certain type of man, and you do. But don't put all your interest in what you believe to be is a good person, because when you come across someone who you feel that you deserve, they have a certain way of thinking, too. They believe that they deserve a certain type of person as well. So you got to be very careful with that. Take it from me, I know what I'm talking about
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:50
Let me be able to share those deep parts of me that I haven't been able to share with anybody else. Let me share those with you. And so that's intimacy. Intimacy. And so that's what I'm looking for in my next relationship. And that's what I'll have with whoever I marry. We'll have that intimacy