I'm saying I would prefer to wait until we know each other better. So why is it that men, if a woman says that men totally are like, no, I'm good, I need sex. Why is that so important? Because I do realize that in the confines of a committed relationship, sex is important, right. And that it is an important part. And I also realize that men express the way that they feel about a woman through sex. I do realize that part
L A
@homosanity · 4:59
Honestly, not that I think that if it happened when I was dating that something happened and we did it earlier, that I would be against it, but I think it's an ideal thing to do because you need to get to know each other. I think that it takes away something when you do that too early. It cheapens it and there leaves no mystery. So I don't think it's like, hey, why are all men like this? Don't think all men are
Robert Jenkins
@Guruball1 · 4:40
It was really enjoyable because I think that we have just built up so much want for each other and we had gotten so into each other on other levels because sex is just not physical, it's emotional, it's mental. So we build our mentals up and we were so close to each other mentally and emotionally until when it happened, I think it was much better because we were into each other more. But then, like I said, I only speak for myself
dee felton
@MrDee · 5:00
You're like, that don't make sense. So you can spend some time getting to know someone, but like they say, women know now, if it's somebody you're super attracted to, you already know in your mind. I want to give him some. Most women think that, and they'll even know Ugirl about it. I don't want to make myself look bad, so I won't give him that on the first day, but that second day
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
I want us to wait to have sex. And so I just wanted to put that out there. I would take him to meet my pastor, and I probably would marry him, because that's how few. Because he would be literally one in a million. Like, seriously, I have not met one. And I've been dating off and on for seven years, and I have not met one man yet that was like, no, just let me put this out here
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:12
And I agree with you that if you do wait a while and then you and the person create this emotional bond and you all create this passion for one another and this chemistry with one another, and you create this level of comfort amongst one another, when you do finally have sex, it probably is explosive. Because there's more to it than just lust. Because let's just be real. When you first meet somebody, if you're physically attracted to them, that's lust
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 1:40
I see where both of them are coming from, and that's how we learn, and that's how we grow, and that's how we are able to better be interact with each other. That's how we're better able to interact with men and women that we meet, because we're able to hear the male perspective and the female perspective. So thank you again for your perspective. And I don't always have to agree with your perspective to appreciate the fact that you gave your perspective
Belle 🍕
@ReySkywalker · 1:17
At that point it becomes like not a way of expressing how you feel but kind of a lack of respect because they want something from you that you don't necessarily want to do with them and it and they're not willing to work for it, they're not willing to spend time with you. They only want that one activity which is kind of a shame because then it feels like they don't actually want you as a person but they want more of what they can do to
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 5:00
I had a good conversation a couple of days ago on the phone about that. And men are visual. That was a good point. I once read that men have a weakness for the visual the same way women have a weakness for words. But let's go back to society and how. I believe a lot of times we unconsciously contribute to sex being so important to men. Think about little boys, four, five, six, whatever age. I mentioned this before
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:59
So most of us know that a good home cooked meal, there's nothing like it. Something that's been cooking all day, made with love, fresh ingredients, your favorite. Everybody knows that a home cooked meal, there's nothing that compares to it. However, most of us are probably guilty of running through a drive through, eating some fast food, eating from a hot dog cart or something like that. Because guess what? We were hungry and we had an immediate need that we wanted
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 3:49
Hi, Angela. And that was a great analogy, actually. At first, I was like, okay, where's she going with this? But that was really a great analogy. And I get that. Right. I understand that. I guess my question was more. So here's the thing. It could be that my picker is off and I'm picking men that they are more interested in sex, right? Or they want sex up front. So it could be me, right?
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:39
Just like he would ask me questions about other things. And then, like I was telling Angela, maybe I'm too flirtatious. Maybe I give off sex vibes, I don't know. But it's definitely giving me something to think about
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 4:45
And the last thing he wants to do is to do anything that's going to turn that woman off or have that woman kind of look down on him. And if the man's seriously interested in you, think the last thing he wants is for you to be viewing him as some thirsty ass pussy hound. This is how I see it
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 1:00
Hey, Andrea. Yeah? You mentioned the concept of flirting and maybe you're right. You know, maybe you're coming on too strong with the flirting. You know, I think it is possible to, you know, especially if it's somebody new. You don't really. You really don't know that. Well, you just