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Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00

Ephesians 6:4 Fathers (& Mothers) do NOT provoke your children to wrath. Are we ready to talk about this? Can we provoke our kids?

And I think some of us 40 and older, if we had that conversation with our parents, I think the relationships with our parents would get better and I think it would heal that inner child that we have, right, that would bring some healing to our inner child. Even if your parents don't apologize to you, being able to get that stuff out and being able to say how they made you feel would bring healing to our inner child. So think about it

#AskSwell #children #adultchildren #family #relationships #healthy

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Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 2:58
What if we had those conversations with our children and gave them that apology and that broke some of that trauma off of them and then they just began to flourish? Or what if you gave your children an apology even if you didn't think you did anything wrong, but they're telling you when you did this. This was the impact that it had on me. This was the experience that I had in that situation, and it caused this, this, this, and this
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Patrick Derns
@patasd101 · 3:53

Eph, 6:4

I have done my own research. I've looked back through generational processes, and my mother was a real sweetheart. She very rarely physically disciplined us, and she only did so if she had enough. Other than that, she would talk to us. Nowadays, it seems that a mother will see her son crying, and she will call him the B word. That you're a b. You're this, you're that. Stop the crying, or I'll give you something to cry for
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Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 4:59

@AndreaSpeaks

All right. Good afternoon. This got to be one of my favorite swells. Have to be in the top five. I came across it when you first posted it. I was on my way to work. I was actually rushing, and I said, no, I need to go home, sit down when it's quiet and do this. In the meantime, I was thinking about it, and I can go so many places with this
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Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:46

@NeophyteSavant

But he probably has and he probably is a pretty good storyteller. He's probably kind of funny when he tells his stories and not saying that you have to listen to the killing and stuff like that. My adoptive dad was a Marine and I got tired of hearing about the Marines. I got tired of hearing about the wars because he was on the front line. He was on the front line for 15 months, okay?
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