And this is going to go, I guess you could look at this conversation and Ms. Cole, 77, she did a swell singleness. And then it was talking about desperation can be costly. So I'm going to post my reply down below. But take a quick look at the link. I put the link up there. Take a quick look. Look at the link. The video is not that long at all. And then come back and tell me what you all think
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:50
I think men be with a woman for so long and he'd be so comfortable with her, he just go ahead and be with her even though he knows she's not for him. And here's the thing, too. Men can be abused too, right? So a woman can be abusing a man too, and make him feel like it. But I think we stay in relationships and we stay in situations longer than what we should because there's something lacking in us
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:43
And marriage does not make things better for people who think it does. You usually get the best of a person while they're dating, while they're courting. After that, we get comfortable, as we should. At some point, we got to be like, okay, you're mine. But if you're having trouble in the dating phase, the courting phase, it's not going to get better. When you get married, it's not going to get better
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 1:00
But she didn't say no. And that's my thing. It's like if you don't want to be with them, then you should be saying no. Don't say yes because that's what you think people want you to say or because you scared to say no. That's all the more reason to say no if you scared, because why are you scared? You know what I mean? So, yeah, I agree
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:51
And he's probably beating her self esteem down to the point where she feel like she ain't got no worth to anybody else but him. And so she might as well marry him because who going to marry her? She got three kids. I'm just throwing it out there. She got three kids. Who going to marry her? Who's going to help her take care of her kids? What's she going to do?
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 2:24
And I know the sex could be great and everything, and the person could be nice, but are you going to be happy for 30 years or more with that person? Can you tolerate their attitude? Can you tolerate the things that they do, good and bad? If not, then that's not for you. But once again, I felt really sorry for her. Because her answer on her face was like, no to the note to note to no, whole remix on that
