Finally ended up meeting after days and days of back and forth contemplations about why it had not happened as of yet. And so finally we met. Everything was fine. He seemed okay, and we got that over with. And that was the same day that we had gone to do the mini cutting sort of date. But it didn't happen. Another concern I have is just regarding a lot of the things he says are very repetitive or sound too good to be true
Aly W
@AlyWonderlandX · 0:43
I just wanted to wrap that up with a finishing of if anybody can answer some of the the questions and concerns I have, whether it's relatable to you or you've had some similar experiences, that would really be greatly appreciated, as I need to know a little bit how to move forward and I don't want to, of course, scare him away
Aayan Banerjee
@BasTalk · 3:48
So if you have those three things listed accurately, granularly in great detail, then that should give you enough for clarity what is acceptable and what is not acceptable. History has generally, especially in relationships, have no bearing. It's a patternless philosophy, if you will. What I mean by patternless is what's worked for somebody may not work for you. I'm sorry about the background noise, I mean traffic. But what's worked for somebody else may not work for you
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Chelsea Hanawalt
@allowthesun · 3:35
So then I was on the same page with this person and then that was a big message for me to know if I even wanted to then continue to see this person. If they couldn't even answer like a question of mine or communicate, then like, I don't want to be in a relationship with this person. So yeah, it's also taking the time to really think about what are the big things that you value in relationships
Aly W
@AlyWonderlandX · 4:44
One thing I can't stand in dating or getting to know people is people who are not transparent, meaning they like to beat around the bush or they never really have a direct answer for you in my opinion. I sort of feel like that's a red flag just because if you can't be direct to somebody, how can you expect the person or the other person to trust you, right?