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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 3:17

Are you ready For adulthood?Let's talk and share our thoughts ❤️

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Hello everyone. I hope you guys are having a great day. I'm making this world to have an open conversation with everyone of you. So today I was wondering about a little something which is very small yet so deep to six days. I'm going to turn 19. So basically, my teenage years are numbered. Now I'm practically going into adulthood

#convos #sayitonswell #adulthood #askswell #talk #conversation #thoughts

@KHUSHI_49
khushi gupta
@KHUSHI_49 · 2:41
But I just want to say that whenever we are growing we should not forget how to be a child. We should not forget how to enjoy our life and how to just be happy and enjoying each and every moment in our life. Okay? And I just want to say that even though you're entering in your adulthood, just don't take tension and just let it be like whatever happens, you will see it, we all will see it
@Pooh
punitha B R
@Pooh · 1:55

@abantikaxo3

Since I'm already in my adulthood, I know how people around me are and I know how much they deserve from me, so I just give them that and I don't expect much from them because I exactly know how they are and I don't also give a d*** about it. It's just me and my life and my career goals path et. I don't want to move away from them and keep my goals going forward as high as possible. And yes, thank you
@pradeepmalar
Pradeep Malarvannan
@pradeepmalar · 3:42

@abantikaxo3

Hey, ABANTIKA, first of all, advanced wishes for your birthday. I don't know if I am going to, you know, remember it. So, yeah, I'll be honest with that. So advanced wishes for your birthday day. Okay. About the adulthood you talked about. I think I really understand how you are thinking right now. I'm about to turn 20 next month in May. Here's the thing. As you said, I really don't want to spend a lot
@SnehaMazumdar10
Sneha Mazumdar
@SnehaMazumdar10 · 0:07
Well said ABANTIKA. And a very happy birthday in advance too
@Arina24_
Arina Sen Bakshi
@Arina24_ · 0:46
Well, stepping into adulthood is always an adventure path for me, because for me, I think every step would be a quite a great adventure. And also, although I like the childhood version of myself, too, who don't even love to be carefree and wild. But stepping into adulthood means also we have to be responsible, and there's a lot of responsibility to be there for us in our shoulders
@Nishtha_10
Nishtha Kaushik
@Nishtha_10 · 2:15

@abantikaxo3

It's not so much exciting. It's been neutral now so it's been good. And I definitely have learned something from my past mistakes in my past self. Maybe I have improved myself quite a lot. I have to still improve more. But yeah, the person I was in my nine 10th class, I'm not that interested more. I have literally improved a lot. I can say that that was it. And your smile was really very good
@Chandrita
CHANDRITA DAS
@Chandrita · 0:43
So ABANTIKA if you ask me I will say that none of us is perfectly ready to act like matured once unless and until the situation arises like that. Every one of us us are having some childish hurt and mind unless we are put in a situation to act like that. But from desiring something so immensely to just being happy if it comes I think we all rework now. We are in a stage of life where we all know that everything we desire to have is not easily achievable
@belle
Sreejita Karmakar
@belle · 2:22
I used to be jealous, very jealous, when I was a child. And these days I have noticed that as someone who is nearing adulthood, I have stopped being as jealous as I used to be. And other than that, I have learned to have compassion for people who don't have the same amount of stuff as I have. I personally have good things at times, and then the next person doesn't have those good things. So I try to share my things with them
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:51

@KHUSHI_49

So yeah, I have a question for you. Can you share what you have learned from your past mistakes? Like any advice you want to give me or anyone listening to this web, like what you have learned from your past mistake or what you have learned from your past experiences
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:40

@belle

Honestly, thank you for joining this conversation, because I felt I couldn't could connect to you and somewhere or the other, I could relate to whatever you said, and it feels great to listen to that. Thank you. Bye
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:34

@Chandrita #sayitonswell #convos

Firstly, thank you so much for joining this conversation. Yes, definitely. It is a new point of view and at some extent I do agree with you. We all have that childish heart inside us and maybe we are not not mature according to our age but also when we are faced with difficulties and there are times when it needs maturity, we tend to be mature, we tend to handle the situation from different points point of view and we try to be smart and efficient about it
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 1:38

@Nishtha_10

Now as we are growing up and we have entered the College, I used to have this thinking that when I will go to College life will get better somehow. Like it will be music, loud music and friends and party. But all I'm saying is College assignments and tests and exams and more tests and more assignments and it's too hectic. But at the same time we can't control life and we can't control time as well
@Moubani_225
Moubani Mukherjee
@Moubani_225 · 0:48
Yes ABANTIKA, I understood your points and it's very relatable. But you know what? It's not important to fulfill the society's expectations. Becoming an adult means having a chance to find oneself. It's about living the life that you always dreamt of and it is about finding reality in your beautiful imagination. As a child. Therefore, I tell you, never let that opportunity to fly away become the person which your childhood self would be extremely proud of
@abantikaxo3
Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:44

Have you Learned something from your childhood? @Arina24_

Also, while you talk about it, you can feel that nostalgia and I feel it will refresh your mind. Ask Swell So yeah, looking forward to listening from you
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 1:03

@Moubani_225

You can always go back to being a child and enjoying environment around us and if that makes us happy then who is there to stop us, right? But then again we have these responsibilities and so much hectic pressure around us that sometimes we have to oppress our inner self. But I will always remember what you said to me today and I will always try to be cheer, full and optimistic about life
@abantikaxo3
Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:29

@Pooh

Hey, thank you for joining this conversation. You mentioned that you are already in your adulthood. So can you tell me something about it? Do you have any advice that I could follow? Like, I'm going to be 19, and I think my life is kind of messy right now and I could really use some motivation and advice. So anything you want to share to me, you can think of me as your typical younger sister
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 1:11

@noelle

Thank you so much for sharing your opinion. If you want to talk about your journey into adulthood and your past experiences from which you have learned something, you can always reply here and I will listen to them and I can talk to you about my experiences even though I have, I think very less per. Yeah, I have definitely learned things from my past which I don't think I will make the same mistakes again
@basicallyrhea
Rhea Bangera
@basicallyrhea · 4:08
It comes with its own troubles. But maybe if we live together this way, we can tackle it for good, right? I mean, are we all growing? It's not a race, it's a marathon. We're all in it together. So I just wish all the best to myself and everyone that's going into adulthood now. Or is already in it. And are struggling. We're all in this together. Thank you so much for talking about this. I really needed this
@arka
Arkabrata Mukherjee
@arka · 0:24
It is an amazing topic and very inspiring. I am going to give my boss exam this year and I am pretty excited to become an adult but I know it's not going to be fun always but I think I am sure to handle tough situation
@arka
Arkabrata Mukherjee
@arka · 0:26
Another thing I learned from my past experience was that I am from a sports background, from cricket and I have better my postures and better techniques. I have learned from my past mistakes, but now I can bet very well. Thank you. This was a good topic. Thanks for sharing
@abantikaxo3
Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:11

@arka

Hey, good luck for your board exam. I hope you ace it. And thank you for joining this conversation. I love to listen to your audio as well and you have a great day
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:33

@basicallyrhea

Hey, I listen to your audio. Thank you so much for joining this conversation. So I could relate to you. And yeah, even it's a coincidence that we both are turning 19 and we both don't have a specific, like, idea about life, but I think we will find something that will suit both of us. And I wish you do, too. I could really relate to what you said and I could understand and yeah, that's all I wanted to say
@arka
Arkabrata Mukherjee
@arka · 0:02
Thank you grateful
@kittykitty
Kiti Kitiran
@kittykitty · 0:06
Bye now. Bye
@kittykitty
Kiti Kitiran
@kittykitty · 0:08
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@spyboy
That Dude
@spyboy · 0:38
Good topic. I am 25 years old, I am in my adulthood and to be honest I am happy. I enjoy life. One advice I will give you is to not stress about the future and enjoy life. Go out, drink, party, enjoy your life. Life is fun if you want it to be. Great topic and great price. I Das actually listening and enjoying a lot. Keep up the good work and have fun. Thanks
@oishuu
Oishu Mukherjee
@oishuu · 0:03

Life is too short to think about the future. Have fun and stop overthinking. Here is a picture see this and laugh.My advice? Don't think about future

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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:26

@spyboy

Hello. Thank you for joining this conversation. I'm glad that you're liking this. Enjoying yourself. I will keep your advice in mind. Have a great day. You said that you're 25 years old. I'm practically experiencing adulthood and you sound really fun about it. So is there something you want to share about your life so far
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:22

@oishuu

Indeed. Agreed. Life is too short to be thinking and like figuring out what I will do in the future instead of that. If we invest our time actually having fun and enjoying life think it's going to be well. So this is another meme for you to enjoy. I hope you like it
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@SSS135
Shashank Sehgal
@SSS135 · 3:07

#convos. #sayitonswell

I couldn't do anything. So I just patiently waited. And slowly and gradually everything seems to fit down, fit into the way I want it to be. I was very comfortable with it. So that's the most important trip that or advice I would like to give after turning 18 because I actually experienced that thing. I experienced an incident. And there are many other things that I learned after turning 18, like my maturity level suddenly increased to the next level
@abantikaxo3
Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:55

@SSS135

Hey, thank you for joining this conversation, and I'm glad that you liked it. I listen to your audio, and I'm really happy for you that your life has been better, and now you can understand people and sympathize with them. I mean, it's a good thing to have. I think as we age, our maturity level also increases, and we tend to become more wise than we used to. And I think it is a good thing to have
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:15

@pradeepmalar

Hey, thank you for joining this conversation. I'm glad that you liked it. If you want to share anything, your past experiences or like the lessons you have learned from your childhood, you can always reply, don't
@anuuuu
Anu mukherjee
@anuuuu · 4:06
Because I am working at the professional world of corporate and they are the startup company. But I just mold about those behaviors or something. Whatever. They show me the dreams. I just convinced about that. Never think very much. So after just four months just close down the start of walk and the complete one started then no walk, no walk. I get as I am from it Das because that is the time when it people are very much getting half salary
@anniexo
ananya mukherjee
@anniexo · 2:08
Hi, this is Sunny here. And actually I just call up and I'm really a fan of yours actually. So I listen the voice of your I don't know but I feel that you got many experience actually main experiences from your life or something around your world. So you have that depth to touch all heart like me. So I want to share my experiences also. So there are many teenagers who just go on with the boys who are giving wonderful deems which never get real
@Sunshinee
Arkabrata Mukherjee
@Sunshinee · 0:10
@deepanshugoyal
Deepanshu Goyal
@deepanshugoyal · 1:26

@abantikaxo3

Still that same timid person who believes everyone easily, who gets emotionally attached to everyone and at the end felt left out or felt being used and dumped out. So I somewhere felt. But I'm not ready for Agile to DH
@Rishav
Rishav Saha
@Rishav · 0:42
This was a great swell to listen to Firstly I will start from my experience that I have learned from my past to never depend on someone financially Das I am an aspiring businessman and I have to be dependent on myself and my abilities. I want to make an impact and I feel I am ready to enter into great work. I hard. Knowing yourself was kind of motivational when I heard it keep up and get going
@thikhaiahhaaa
mithai rocks
@thikhaiahhaaa · 0:25
I am 18, and I feel I am more mature than my age. I feel I am in my adulthood right now, even though I'm just 18 in but I love my life, and I think I'm doing great and will do great in the future as well
@star69
Soully Star
@star69 · 0:01

Great Stuff keep up gurl🔥

You
@mithairocks
Thomas Shelby
@mithairocks · 0:36
All the best
@dudumia
Rishav Saha
@dudumia · 0:09
@dudumia
Rishav Saha
@dudumia · 0:27
Violence. Violence and violence. I don't like it, but violence likes me. That I can't avoid. Ta. Ta. It
@ririshah
Rehan Shah
@ririshah · 1:49

@abantikaxo3

I don't know how to call this advice because it's very easier said than done, but it's what I've done in my life. Certain events in my life very early have made me understand that the best way to live life is to live unbothered by what happens around you. You control the controllables
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:08

@ririshah

Hey. Thank you for joining this conversation. I really appreciate the advice you gave me, and I will always keep that in mind
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:21

@dudumia

Thank you so much for joining this conversation. Do you want to share some of your experiences or something that you have learned from your past? Because that is the whole concept for this conversation. You can take your time and like think about it and then drop your reply
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:18

@mithairocks

Thank you so much for joining this conversation. I am glad that you are enjoying this conversation. If you want to share your experiences or any piece of advice that you want me to have, you can go ahead and thank you for your appreciation as well
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:20

@thikhaiahhaaa

Hey, thank you for joining this conversation. I listened to the audio and I'm glad that you are already a little mature and you know what you want in your life. I appreciate you joining the conversation and sharing your opinions and I wish you have a great day
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Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:53

@Rishav

As you said, you wanted to be a businessman and yes indeed, if you try can be. Thank you so much for joining this conversation. If you want to talk about anything, like any advice that you want to give me or any other experiences, you can always reply to this. Well, I will be here waiting for your audios to come. Have a great day. Bye
@abantikaxo3
Abantika Mukherjee
@abantikaxo3 · 0:25

@deepanshugoyal

Hey. Thank you for joining this conversation. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. And I hope you are in a better place right now. And you have learned to come to conclusion with your emotional disputes. And I wish you the very Belle for your future. Thank you for sharing this particular thing with us. I really appreciate it
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